How do you relate to time?

#348 – How do you relate to time?Are you enslaved to time? Do you feel like it slips through your fingers while you're running around trying to achieve and accomplish and do and... survive? Do you sometimes feel you're "wasting" it in an unfulfilling...

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Jun 20, 2025
How do you know it's time to re-commit?

#347 – How do you know it's time to re-commit?You committed to your goal. Putting yourself on the hook was energizing. You felt magnetic, radiant, indefatigable.Then life happened. You slowly started to pile things on top of your commitment, and one...

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Jun 19, 2025
Why won't your Ego drop the magnifying glass?

#346 – Why won't your Ego drop the magnifying glass?If, like your Ego, you were obsessed with status and your ranking in society, you'd also scrutinize everything and everyone, including yourself, and ask: more or less than me?A voice inside your hea...

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Jun 18, 2025
What keeps you from noticing the beam in your eye?

#345 – What keeps you from noticing the beam in your eye?When you feel you're doing everything right, you're in danger: your feeling of perfection may make you self-righteous, and from that to forgoing empathy, the path is short.This is what's happen...

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Jun 17, 2025
What taught you to negotiate love?

#344 – What taught you to negotiate love?Tell me if you had this experience: when you got what people really mean with "unconditional love," you thought: hm, I never had that growing up.Whenever my mother gave me the shoulder because I'd broken...

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Jun 16, 2025
What do you expect will happen when people "hate" you?

#343 – What do you expect will happen when people "hate" you?If what other people thought of you impacted your life in real ways, you might be dead by now––or at least pushing a cart and sleeping under a bridge.But you know that's not how it wor...

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Jun 15, 2025
What makes you show up even when you don't feel like it?

#342 – What makes you show up even when you don't feel like it?There are times when you want to watch a movie instead of working out, eat an obscenely big, lemon-infused white-chocolate-chip cookie instead of an apple, or check Substack instead of wr...

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Jun 14, 2025
What's your *only* job as an artist?

#341 – What's your *only* job as an artist?When you're an artist––either as a professional art maker, or as someone who brings new things into the world with the purpose of creating change––you only have one job. No matter what your Ego and the...

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Jun 13, 2025
What's keeping you from your genius?

#340 – What's keeping you from your genius?You may be extremely competent at many things. Even excellent. But there's a difference between competence and genius. And unless you cross that line, you'll be stuck.My friend GV was stuck in that zone of c...

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Jun 12, 2025
Why won't you let the effing go?

#339 – Why won't you let the effing go?Why does feedback get stuck in my psyche like spinach between my teeth?When earlier today I got an email from a reader sharing their thoughts about yesterday's piece, I first tried to be "zen." I got into a ment...

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Jun 11, 2025