#76 – What's uncomfortable about owning your power?Having power isn't wrong, but abusing it makes it harmful.I once asked a group of women, "who here wants more power?"They all raised their hands, nodding and grunting.I then asked, "who here loves po...
#75 – Did you forget it was a curve?Does your mind always remember what your body already knows, that learning takes time? Mine doesn't.The learning process, as you know, is shaped like an upward curve. In the beginning your knowledge of what you wan...
#74 – How Would Infinite Patience Change Your Life?I used to think that setting deadlines for my intentions and wishes was the key to making them a reality. I believed that if I wanted something, like a million dollars, the message wouldn't be "heard...
#73 – What do you do with obstacles?Obstacles are challenging. Sometimes frustrating. Always inconvenient.But how you respond to them will make the difference between ultimate success and failure.Until not too long ago, I viewed obstacles as though I...
#72 – What makes you happy?The Ego wants to win over others. The True Self seeks contentment, no matter where others stand.The Ego prefers finite games that end when someone wins and another one loses because winning proves its #1 ranking. But the Tr...
#71 – What makes us unhappy?When I'm walking on the streets of South Beach and a big truck fails to stop at the zebra crossing because the driver's on their phone or looking the other way, I become unhappy. Frustrated. Sometimes irate, wanting to sha...
#70 – How neutral are your thoughts?I believed I was over judging but this morning I've realized I'm not.After I came across the sentence, "I have no neutral thoughts," I started to observe my thoughts. To my dismay, I noticed that every single one o...
#69 – What part of you wants to be seen?I'm grateful for my sister's accusation because it allowed me to break free of my fear of not being perfect.Her claim was that I had an ulterior motive all along, and that once I achieved my hidden objective, I...
#68 – Who makes you want to explain yourself?In April of 2022 I "broke up" with my sister.I didn't realize it then, but our relationship had re-entered the realm of codependency after our parents had passed and my family and I had immigrated to the U...
#67 – Who needs to understand?Last evening, I took a walk with my husband by the beach.The tropical rain caught us when we were as far from home as we could be. We took refuge under the South Pointe Cafe pergola and decided to wait a bit, our hopeful...