What will it take for you to trust yourself?

#558 – What will it take for you to trust yourself?Most people agree: external rules help us live in a civilized society. The problem comes when we take those external rules too far. When we internalize them and then forget they came from outside.Thi...

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Feb 24, 2026
When will you stop justifying your wants?

#557 – When will you stop justifying your wants?Maybe you've felt this too: wanting things has sometimes made you uncomfortable, embarrassed, even.I have. Until fairly recently, I felt like I didn't want anything. The truth is I didn't allow mys...

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Feb 23, 2026
Can you be lazy and fulfilled?

#556 – Can you be lazy and fulfilled?What is lazy?Are you lazy if you don't work yourself to the ground for every goal you pursue?If you don't set lofty goals for yourself?If, having set your lofty goals, you sit down, filing your nails, until i...

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Feb 22, 2026
What will you drop to become more like yourself?

#555 – What will you drop to become more like yourself?"The beauty of the mountain is that it's so much like a mountain." ––Chinese saying. What choices would you make if your sole purpose were to become more like yourself?In the last few years, I've...

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Feb 21, 2026
What causes your energy to leak?

#554 – Where is your energy leaking?When you own a house and want your utility costs to stay reasonable, you check for any spots that don't properly seal or appliances that consume too much energy. It's called an energy audit.But how often do you bec...

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Feb 20, 2026
Who taught you to be selfless?

#553 – Who taught you to be selfless?I don't know anyone who'd proudly describe themselves as "selfish." That may be our biggest problem. But what if I told you that "selfishness" is the only goal worth pursuing?There are two different types of "self...

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Feb 19, 2026
What does your Ego forbid you to believe?

#542 – What does your Ego forbid you to believe?In a video about the power of emotions, a woman talked about desiring to lose weight. Not being a "risk taker," she said, she didn't dare to visualize living in a body she felt good in.Her doubt rang tr...

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Feb 18, 2026
How will you choose to show up for your life?

#551 – How will you choose to show up for your life?When you're an observer, you scrutinize reality. If it's not what you like, you'll do whatever it takes to fix it. Or, depressed because it doesn't meet your expectations, you'll get under the...

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Feb 17, 2026
How can seeking resonance help you make decisions?

#549 – How can seeking resonance help you make decisions?You may think that, ensuring a decision is right requires endless pondering and complicated pros-and-cons analysis. That's only because you equate "right decision" with "decision that leads to...

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Feb 15, 2026