#461 – What are you saying when you pray for better?If "someday, somewhere" is your motto, you'll never have peace because there'll always be a different "someday, somewhere" to aspire to.That's what I realized yesterday, when I learned that moving o...

#460 – What do you hope for when you blow your life out?When life feels monotonous and too "normal," some people freak out––is that it? we ask ourselves.On a recent evening walk near the beach, where the new trend is rollerblading, an unsettling thou...

#459 – How does your Ghost of Misplaced Shame keep you under-being?If you’ve ever wanted the earth to swallow you right after taking a bold step, it’s not you — it’s your Ghost of Misplaced Shame.When the idea first appears (“Yeah, I’ll ask for that...

#458 – When will you stop hiding in plain sight?One instinctive response to feeling in danger is to hide. If you felt in danger a lot growing up it's only natural that you still revert to hiding when things feel iffy.On a call yesterday, I told one o...

#457 – What's possible when you stop responding to other people's Egos?How many times have you agreed with what someone––out of their Ego’s fear––believed?As a coach, I learned to notice when I might be colluding with a client’s Ego or Ghosts.For exa...

#455 – What happens when you love those who hurt you?Loving your enemies is revolutionary. It moves you from “I can’t be happy because they hurt me” to “I’m happy because I feel only love.”It also sets you free.When my son was thr...

#455 – What if the only way through is gratitude?Feelings of injustice always come from the Ego. It wants you to clench your fists and reject reality.That was me these past few days. I wanted to take my son’s case public, to seek legal assistance — s...

#454 – What do you make of what happens to you?The same Ego arrogance that makes you think you can control your life's outcomes, makes you certain that you understand the world.Well, you don't. No one does, because the world––life––is not understanda...

#453 – How do your well-intentioned suggestions impact people?I'm tired of myself––well, of my Ego. Always meddling, suggesting, "helping." The truth is, it wants to be in charge because, in its exhausting arrogance, it believes its way is the O...

#452 –Where's your line between perfection and commitment?Committing to your talents is one thing. Becoming precious and perfectionist about them is another. Where the former tends to your True Self, the latter marches at your Ego’s command.The last...