🟩 What to do when you don’t know your message yet

Hi ,Yesterday I said something that might’ve hit home:If people can’t repeat what you do, they can’t refer you.And for a lot of people, that’s the sticking point.It’s not that they’re unclear in their own heads.They know what they do.They’re great at...

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Apr 07, 2025
đźź© What people think being memorable looks like

Hi ,In the last email, I shared how I made my brand repeatable —by filtering everything through a simple question:“Did I (or you) make it simpler?”But here’s something I’ve seen over and over again:People chase the look of memorability.But not the su...

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Apr 05, 2025
đźź© How I made my brand repeatable

Hi ,Last time, I shared how I almost missed my brand completely.I was chasing clever.I thought Simplify was too short… too plain… not “brand-y” enough.But once I saw it clearly — and stopped resisting it — the next step was obvious:Make it repeatable...

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Apr 04, 2025
đźź© The mistake I almost made with my brand

Hi ,In the last email, I shared how I didn’t invent my brand — I heard it.It came straight from the words clients kept saying: “You made it so simple.”But what I didn’t tell you…is that I almost missed it completely.I almost got too clever.Before Sim...

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Apr 03, 2025
đźź© What they say behind your back (and why it matters)

Hi ,Most people think I came up with my brand.But I didn’t.My clients did.At the end of our sessions, they kept saying things like:“Wow, you made it so simple.”“I finally know what to do next.”“It’s all clear now.”Eventually, I noticed the pattern.An...

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Apr 02, 2025
đźź© Shut up and take the win

Hi ,Yesterday, I spent the whole day creating, testing, and launching a new tool for the content I make.There were a bunch of other things I wanted to do too...But mostly, I got that one big thing done.You might be thinking,“Hey, good for you! You go...

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Apr 01, 2025
đźź© They kept asking how I did it

Hi ,Quick recap of yesterday’s story:I used to think networking was about impressing people.So I’d talk… and talk… and talk some more.About my work. My passion. My process.Trying to prove I was worth hiring or referring.But it didn’t work.People smil...

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Mar 31, 2025
đźź© I kept getting ghosted

Hi ,I used to walk into networking conversations thinking,“Okay, let’s impress them.”So I’d talk. A lot.About my background.My work.My passion.All the things I thought would make people want to refer me or work with me.But instead of new clients, I g...

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Mar 30, 2025
đźź© How I tricked myself into showing up every day

Hi ,A few days ago, I shared the story of the promise I made to my daughter:To exercise every day for a year.I kept that promise.510 days straight, actually.But here’s something I didn’t mention…We all set goals like that.“I want to write every day.”...

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Mar 29, 2025