You're not stuck as your are

You're a human, not a robot.A person, not a machine.Although you may have some well-worn grooves in your brain that cause you to operate in an automatic and almost-robotic way, you retain the ability to break up the automaticity and choose.That inclu...

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Nov 07, 2023
What do you want before November is over?

November has begun, and will be over before you know it.What's ONE thing you want to happen in your marriage before the month is over? Something that you have control of and can be a catalyst in making it happen?Mine is listening for and acknowledgin...

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Nov 06, 2023
Your choice: God's way or society's

David asked, “Is there anyone still left of the house of Saul to whom I can show kindness for Jonathan’s sake?” (2 Samuel 9:1)In 2 Samuel 9:1-13, we find a remarkable story highlighting the importance of following God's standards over societal norms....

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Nov 06, 2023
Is your spouse doing something wrong?

I've spoken with two spouses this week who kept telling me what their spouse did wrong. I listened, and acknowledged the spouses have dropped the ball.When I asked the complaining spouses to look at themselves, they went right back to telling me what...

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Nov 04, 2023
The Danger of Familiarity: Lessons from the Attic

Last night I installed an electric hoist in the attic above my garage. For a couple of hours I was stepping near and around a nearly 2 ft by 4.5 ft rectangular opening almost 20 feet above my concrete garage floor.At some point after working a while,...

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Nov 03, 2023
God's plan includes (and is bigger than) your welfare

We must be grateful for our enemies, for God uses them to shape our souls for His glory. (Andy Davis)It's human nature to focus on our own well-being, especially when we face adversity or opposition. However, as we look into the depths of God's plan,...

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Nov 03, 2023
There's something about your mate you're not seeing

My kids were young when Disney's animated Beauty and the Beast hit the theaters. My favorite song from the movie is the "Something There." This song explores Belle's realization that there's more to the Beast than she's seen —or allowed herself to se...

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Nov 02, 2023
Help from unexpected places (and people)

In the twists and turns of life, there are moments when it feels as if adversity is around every corner. At times, our foes seem too many and too mighty. Yet, as we journey through 1 Samuel 19, we witness the profound ways God sends help, often from...

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Nov 02, 2023
Is it working for you?

Does _____ make your marriage work better?(Fill in the blank with a negative action. Mine is "trying to be right.")If it's not making your marriage better, consider why you think it's going to work the next time.❤️ Sharing is Caring. Know someone wh...

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Nov 01, 2023