An open letter to wives

Read Time: 1 minutes, 14 secondsDear Wives,I write this letter on behalf of your husband. He may not tell you this, but he really appreciates it when you encourage his effort.You see, it's easy to affirm him when you see the result of his effort...

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Sep 23, 2020
Oopsies, mess ups, and sins

Read Time: 2 minutes, 32 secondsI heard from Kelly this morning who wrote the following:Hi, Kevin!Thanks for reaching out and following up on this challenge. I wish I had seen this email on Thursday…Instead of today! We had lots of drama an...

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Sep 21, 2020
The Other FOMO

Read Time: 1 minute, 20 secondsTim wanted to invest $2500 in a marketing opportunity, but knew his wife, Jill, would be against it.She'd think it was too risky, and would be concerned that they'd be out of $2500 they desperately needed.Because Tim di...

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Sep 20, 2020
[CORRECTION] Marriage is God's invention

Read Time: 52 secondsIn his book, The Meaning of Marriage, author Tim Keller writes:When you marry, you've gotten into something that was invented by God. And if you determine to run your marriage your way, you're in for a lot of trouble, because mar...

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Sep 20, 2020
Everybody plays the fool

Read Time: 52 secondsIn his book, The Meaning of Marriage, author Tim Keller writes:When you marry, you've gotten into something that was invented by God. And if you determine to run your marriage your way, you're in for a lot of trouble, because mar...

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Sep 20, 2020
Everybody plays the fool

Read Time: 30 secondsHave you ever felt like your spouse was uninterested in what you had to say?Ever felt like your mate only cared about you hearing what was on his/her mind? Annoying, isn't it? It causes tension in the marriage, doesn't...

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Sep 18, 2020
It's not too late

Read Time: 43 secsIt's not too late.That's what I'm saying about sending a message today even though it's coming nearly 12 hours later than I usually send them.But, that's what I'm also saying to you about whatever challenge you decided to take on du...

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Sep 18, 2020
Do you know what you're fighting about?

Read Time: 24 secsCouples have fights about all sorts of stuff.However, more times than not, the fight is not even about the topic at hand.The fight is about preserving competence and and connection.Men want to feel competent.Women want to feel conne...

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Sep 16, 2020
🐑 How are your sheep and oxen doing?

Read Time: 1 min, 26 secsThere's a poetic verse in the King James Version of the bible that I want you to think about today: Be thou diligent to know the state of thy flocks, and look well to thy herds. (Proverbs 27:23).I hear you saying, Kevin, 21st...

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Sep 15, 2020
Warning Lights, Strange Noises, and Irregularities

Read Time: 52 secondsI'm sitting at Pep Boys as I write this message.Three or four other customers have come in since I've been here.While I don't know them nor their story, I do know one thing about them: they're having car issues, and they don't wa...

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Sep 14, 2020