Unique Yet Functional: Lessons from a Broken Toilet

A few years ago I across a peculiar scene in a restroom – a toilet with a red hanger you had to pull to flush the toilet. It was a strange sight, but it worked! Now, you might be wondering what this has to do with marriage. Let me explain.Like that q...

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Oct 28, 2023
Love doesn't keep score. Do you?

If you're playing a competitive game, it make sense to keep score so you know who's winning.Your marriage is not a competitive game.❤️ Sharing is Caring. Know someone who could benefit from this daily email? Forward them this email or send them to ht...

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Oct 27, 2023
What God has for me is for me

Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them. (Psalm 139:16, ESV)It's natural to occasionally cast longing eyes on someone else’s portion. Perh...

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Oct 27, 2023
What surprise does your spouse love? 😲

Coach Mack Arrington, one of the subscribers to this email responded to one of my email about being hypocritical suggesting I write about the "out of character surprises."I thought I'd share he wrote instead of rewriting it.Luanne (my wife) always lo...

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Oct 26, 2023
Praying when you're envious or jealous

Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working. (James 5:16, ESV)There's a certain vulnerability that accompanies the act of praying for...

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Oct 26, 2023
"My spouse won't listen to me"

Is your spouse not listening to you or his he/she not hearing you?Get the distinction.It's unlikely that your spouse is not listening to you. I can imagine that he/she rehearses your words in his/her mind long after you've said them.What's more proba...

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Oct 25, 2023
Keep your spiritual eyes open 👀

Behold, I was brought forth in iniquity, and in sin did my mother conceive me. (Psalm 51:5, NIV)Imagine a young sapling, trying to grow tall and straight in a forest where the winds are fierce, and the soil is treacherous. This sapling is vulnerable,...

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Oct 25, 2023
Is Your Need to Be Right Clouding Your Judgment?

A friend of mine said this recently:Being right is a huge, deal-breaking deal that trumps all rational consideration.Saying the same thing in another way: Wanting to be right can sometimes be so important to people that they stop thinking clearly abo...

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Oct 24, 2023
Unseen Forces: Distinguishing the Hidden Motives

For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart. (Hebrews 4:12, NIV)Picture this: A potter wo...

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Oct 24, 2023
What do you want that someone else has?

[Jesus] went on: “What comes out of a person is what defiles them. For it is from within, out of a person’s heart, that evil thoughts come—sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly...

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Oct 23, 2023