Don't do what I did (if you want a good marriage)

     Reading Time: 40 secondsI just did it, again.I instinctively blamed my son for something BEFORE checking to see if he was the culprit.I did it four times yesterday (I agree, that's pitiful).To my horror, each time I blam...

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Nov 09, 2020
Seeking a divorce attorney?

     Reading Time: 34 seconds"I wanted to talk with you before going to the divorce attorney," read the text a husband sent me three days ago.This husband has been married for 2 months.He and his wife have had all sorts of is...

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Nov 08, 2020
What you know may be killing your marriage

     Reading Time: 44 secondsYou already know what's going to happen.It's because you know your spouse like the back of your hand.You can already make his/her arguments.You can already anticipate the consequences.You know how...

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Nov 06, 2020
How'd you get in there? πŸ€”

     Reading Time: 12 secondsThere are holes along your marriage journey.Holes are undesirable, demanding, and costly.You're gonna wind up in a few from time to time.It's one thing to miss seeing a hole and fall into it.It's...

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Nov 05, 2020
Be quiet. Shut up. Silencio. Shhhh!

     Reading Time: 30 secondsGrowing up I attended a church that had 60 seconds of quietness every Sunday morning called, The Discipline of Silence.Folks struggled with it at first because everyone was so used to talking. But...

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Nov 04, 2020
Your vote matters πŸ‡ΊπŸ‡Έ

     Reading Time: 23 secondsYour vote matters.Whether it be for president, congress, mayor, or the county tax assessor; your vote makes a difference.The same can be said for your vote on whether or not you'll show up in your...

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Nov 03, 2020
Limbs. Fruit. Marriage. 🎬

     Reading Time: 42 secondsAs I've gotten older, I've become more of a risk taker.This attitude has been prodded by the following quote: "Go out on a limb β€” that's where the fruit it is."There's gonna come a time in your ma...

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Nov 02, 2020
Loving when it's not deserved

     Reading Time: 1 mins, 13 secsOver the past two days I've asked if God was your rock, and then warned you against flattery, lies, and unfaithfulness.Today I want to end this three-part email by reminding you of the greate...

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Oct 30, 2020
Flattery, lies, and unfaithfulness

     Reading Time: 56 secondsYesterday I asked you if God was your rock. We need him to be that during tough times -- especially in marriage.Today I want to know if you're flattering him? How about lying to him? Is your...

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Oct 29, 2020
Is God your rock?

     Reading Time: 56 secondsMy next three emails will be centered on Psalm 78:35-38:They remembered that God was their rock, the Most High God their redeemer. But they flattered him with their mouths; they lied to him w...

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Oct 28, 2020