Will your children get a divorce? 🤔

 Read Time - 1:50Good afternoon — I hope your week has gotten off to a good start.Did you know this was National Marriage Week?A bloke from the UK started the whole thing in 1996, and in 2010 we began celebrating it in the United States.To hono...

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Feb 08, 2021
Don't waste your wounds

 Read Time - 1:25Last night I told a group of friends in a group text that I feel like my thirties and forties were a disappointment career-wise. I'm ambitious, and planned to be further along financially and positionally -- especially given t...

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Feb 03, 2021
Give your mate the benefit of the doubt

 Read Time - 1:25Remember the 1990 song Benefit of the Doubt by Pebbles?Here's some of what she had to say ...Baby, I believe that you still got a heartThat's why I try to stop myself before I start'Cause I can make it toughI can make it rough,...

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Jan 30, 2021
Expectations, middle fingers, and Billy's parents

 Read Time: 2 minsHow often do you thank your mate for doing something that you expected him/her to do?The natural tendency in relationships is to not show any love when someone does something that was expected of them.Examples:It happens at wo...

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Jan 26, 2021
Is your marriage drifting towards failure?

 Read Time: 1 min, 18 secsHow's your marriage holding up under all the stress of the pandemic, inauguration, economic conditions, and everything else going on?Is your marriage moving forward, marking time, or going in reverse?It's important to...

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Jan 22, 2021
Do you know why you keep reacting?

 Read Time: 45 secsFish may appear to be foolish given the way they go after bait -- a lot of it fake.But, they're not foolish.They're impulsive. We, on the other hand, are the ones who are foolish. We see bait and impulsively go after it knowi...

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Jan 19, 2021
Do you know why you keep reacting?

 Read Time: 45 secsFish may appear to be foolish given the way they go after bait -- a lot of it fake.But, they're not foolish.They're impulsive. We, on the other hand, are the ones who are foolish. We see bait and impulsively go after it knowi...

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Jan 19, 2021
🐔 Can you handle the rubber chicken?

 Read Time: 2 mins, 17 secsHave you ever been going along in your life and marriage just fine, and then out of nowhere something (or someone) disrupted your flow?I refer to that as a rubber chicken.The name came from an exercise where a facilit...

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Jan 14, 2021
Respond to me roughly? I'll give you a response.

 Read Time: 54 secondsOne of the best ways to stir up anger in your mate (and friction in your marriage) is to respond to roughly.Think about it from your perspective.Isn't there's something triggered in you whenever someone responds to you in...

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Jan 12, 2021
[MW+] I need your help, and new content

 Dear - I hope your weekend is going well.I have a couple of good pieces of news for you:1) I've added new content to MW+ => Fighting Fear In Your Marriage2) I need your help with our 2021 initiative ... the Marriage Works! Vow Renewal Proj...

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Jan 09, 2021