Will you regret it?

Read Time: 12 secondsWhat are you teaching your children about marriage?Teaching includes what you say and do.And, it's worth noting that when it comes to kids, more is caught than taught.In other words, what you model in your marriage has the potent...

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Sep 13, 2020
Missing Kissing, Pt 2

Read Time: 57 secsAs soon as I sent today's message, I looked in my inbox and saw this reply from yesterday's email:I am partially quarantined due to my exposure every day as a public high school teacher in a COVID environment where all masks are vol...

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Sep 12, 2020
Missing Kissing

If you're reading this email because someone forwarded it to you, I encourage you to subscribe so you'll get the emails hot off the press.Read Time: 2 minsHappy Saturday!I received some good feedback yesterday from the message about kissingHere's som...

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Sep 12, 2020
Your Kiss Is On My List

Read time: 58 secsIf you were born after 1990, the song "Your kiss is on my list" likely foreign to you.Today, it's a setup for an important question: Is your spouse's kiss on your list?Researchers suggest that kissing is the first thing to disappear...

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Sep 11, 2020
Are you a control freak? (Is your mate?)

Read time: 1 min, 45 secsYesterday I wrote about the reality that we cannot control everything.I included four powerful insights found in an email Amy sent.I'd like to take that thought a step further today. There are two camps when it comes to...

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Sep 10, 2020
I Can't Breathe

Read Time: 1 min, 40 secsOver the past few years, and especially this summer, the phrase "I Can't Breathe" has been associated with the deaths of Eric Garner and George Floyd.Could it be that your spouse is speaking that phrase to you due to you bein...

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Sep 09, 2020
Where's God in my marriage?

Read time: 1 min, 10 secsKJ, one of the spouses participating in the challenge sent this in:I have to work on the word love in my marriage its hard. When your spouse is on drugs been off and on this has torn our family and been leaving in out ou...

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Sep 08, 2020
The marriage double-standard

Read time: 1 min, 20 secsHappy Labor Day!This is the first email in my 30 23-Day Email Challenge (I changed it so the challenge would end on the last day of the month). It's not too late to do your own challenge (click here).Anyway ...Let's talk abou...

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Sep 07, 2020
🎯 Join me - the challenge starts tomorrow!

Yesterday I wrote you about the 30-day email challenge that starts tomorrow:I have always been reluctant to send "too many" emails. What that has typically resulted in is me failing to send enough emails. So, over the next 30 days, you can expect to...

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Sep 06, 2020
My Challenge + Your Challenge (Response Needed)

Happy Saturday to you - I hope you're doing well. It's 88℉ in North Texas right now. Considering we've had several days above 100℉, it feels nice and "cool" right now.I write today for three reasons:1) To thank you for being on this email list. Witho...

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Sep 05, 2020