27 days with parents... is no joke

Hi ,It's been a whole 24 days since I spoke to you here as I've been travelling Europe with my family for the past 2 weeks. And as much as I love my family (I really do), travelling with them for this long is... a lot of mental load.To be planning th...

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Oct 02, 2024
On Fulfilling Your Destiny...

Dear ,I'm just going to say it. Most of our personal problems is a result of not acknowledging or accessing our inner wisdom.Our inner wisdom is the guidance that comes from within, the connection with our personal truth, that deep knowing that shine...

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Sep 06, 2024
a compilation of mind blowing wisdom

Hey , I wanna do something a bit different with this week’s email. I wanna share with you some powerful perspectives that have expanded my mind and felt like a healing balm to my heart. I’ll leave you with some questions to reflect on for the weekend...

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Aug 30, 2024
i'm doing something i haven't done in 2 YEARS!

Hey ,The last time I organised an in-person event was... 2 years ago! Well, apart from my live talkshow series the whole of last year.In October 2022, I spontaneously organised a walk and talk, where I brought a group of absolute strangers from my s...

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Aug 14, 2024
this is home, truly

Dear , It's my birth home Singapore's 59th birthday today, which got me thinking: What makes a home? As you may know, I've been struggling with falling into the workaholic cycle for years. In April earlier this year, I flew to Bali for my good friend...

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Aug 09, 2024
something I'm afraid people will find out about me...

Dear , It's been two weeks since I've written to you, and I apologise! Admittedly, I've been enjoying life way too much (you may have been following along on Instagram) "What is something you are afraid for people to find out about you?" -- this ques...

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Aug 02, 2024
results aren’t showing! what to do?

Dear ,“Rae I’m stressed. I’m not getting the results I want. I know I need to rest and I want to do creative work but because I’m not hitting the results I want, I end up spending any free time doing more work hoping I can get the results, and I’m ju...

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Jul 12, 2024
How to develop (genuine) influence

Dear ,"How to develop influence?" Ask this question and most people will tell you:Be genuinely interested in peopleLearn how to build rapport with people, look for similarities and common groundBe an active listener and have them talk about themselve...

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Jul 09, 2024
our greatest fear presents an opportunity

Dear ,I remember a time in my life when I would clad myself in uncomfortable formal wear in order to seem more intelligent and successful.I was so careful in practicing my “what do you do” response because I was so afraid people would find out that I...

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Jun 21, 2024