Dear , As humans, we crave certainty. We repeat the same thoughts, actions, and emotions, seeking predictability. Over time, we hardwire our brains into rigid patterns—trapping ourselves in a cycle that only reinforces our current reality.This someti...

Dear ,Recently I met Nat from Ning Collective and I was truly blown away by her and her co-founder's vision — building systems for personal growth 🌱They've grown their TikTok from 0 to 33k in just a couple of months. They create meaningful content a...

Hey ,”Rae you talk so much about building a relationship with your inner voice and observing your thoughts… but the moment I have to speak up I just lose my words. The fear and doubt take over... How do I overcome this?"I received this question at "a...

Dear , I've likely met over 100 new people in the past year so far. Every single time I share that I've been emceeing professionally for 10 years, I see a look of confusion, followed by "if you don't mind me asking... how old are you?" Well, I starte...

Dear ,Last year, I spent more than 6 months outside Singapore.I went to Taiwan, Philippines, two different states in the US, spent a month in Europe, and went back to Bali 3 times. I experienced so many moments of serendipity. Connected conversations...

Dear ,The OYV Circle is going through an exciting revamp! Here's what's up:1️⃣ The signature OYV Circle is now a 3 months journey (instead of the previous 6 months)Because it IS possible to speak up and show up as the confident and assertive yet empa...

Hey , Us humans are so obsessed with achieving certainty. 💭 If I'm gonna spend 45 mins on this IG post, I want to make sure it brings me X number of likes/shares and X number of clients💭 It doesn't make sense to pursue writing/speaking/ any "hobby"...

Hey ,We recently had our first ever MILESTONES CELEBRATION PARTY and wow I'm in awe.The vulnerable stories shared.The presence, active listening and safe space held.Some people said they almost cried. I’m telling you— I was crying internally cuz I fe...

Hey ,When I was 21, I got exposed to the world of personal development and entrepreneurship. 3-4 times a week, for a few hours each time, I’ll be hanging out with both entrepreneurs in their 50s and young driven peers who are side-hustling while...

Hey , Once, I was coaching a client on a group call. She initially gave me brief, surface-level responses. Something told me that there was more to the issue.She eventually opened up about her struggles but then apologised, saying— “Ah, I feel so bad...