Your marriage is made of moments [27 secs]

   The ocean is made of drops.The beach is made of grains of sand.A football field is made of blades of grass.In like fashion, your marriage is made of moments. But, what else could it be made of?When you think about the highs and lows...

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Nov 19, 2020
Unfavorable marriage conditions, but...

   I want to salute all the spouses who, in spite of unfavorable marriage conditions, are still:showing up each dayloving as Christ loved the church (husbands)submitting (respecting) their husbands as unto the Lord (wives)praying for t...

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Nov 17, 2020
Are you sucker punching your mate? 🥊

   Two boxers are standing in the middle of the ring receiving final instructions from the referee.After his speech, the referee tells the boxers to hit gloves then go to their respective corners.The boxers hit gloves, as they were ins...

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Nov 14, 2020
What can a sneeze teach you about marriage? 🤧

   I have to be honest with you.There's a part of me (read: my ego) that wants to come up with some mega-marriage revelation that will astound the masses and leave them awestruck at the size of my cloud (h/t Donnie).But, so far, I have...

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Nov 12, 2020
Do these emails help?

   There's nothing worse than being irrelevant.To that end, I thought I'd push pause on the type of emails I normally send so I could discover ...1) If the messages are relevant2) If they're helpful to your marriage3) What Marriage Wor...

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Nov 12, 2020
Help! My spouse voted for THAT guy. 😡

     Reading Time: 3 minutes, 16 secondsNote: I write this email knowing it is going to stir up emotions that are already running hot. I wasn't going to mention the election, but believed it would be helpful for couples who a...

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Nov 11, 2020
Don't do what I did (if you want a good marriage)

     Reading Time: 40 secondsI just did it, again.I instinctively blamed my son for something BEFORE checking to see if he was the culprit.I did it four times yesterday (I agree, that's pitiful).To my horror, each time I blam...

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Nov 09, 2020
Seeking a divorce attorney?

     Reading Time: 34 seconds"I wanted to talk with you before going to the divorce attorney," read the text a husband sent me three days ago.This husband has been married for 2 months.He and his wife have had all sorts of is...

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Nov 08, 2020
What you know may be killing your marriage

     Reading Time: 44 secondsYou already know what's going to happen.It's because you know your spouse like the back of your hand.You can already make his/her arguments.You can already anticipate the consequences.You know how...

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Nov 06, 2020
How'd you get in there? 🤔

     Reading Time: 12 secondsThere are holes along your marriage journey.Holes are undesirable, demanding, and costly.You're gonna wind up in a few from time to time.It's one thing to miss seeing a hole and fall into it.It's...

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Nov 06, 2020