I Can't Breathe

Read Time: 1 min, 40 secsOver the past few years, and especially this summer, the phrase "I Can't Breathe" has been associated with the deaths of Eric Garner and George Floyd.Could it be that your spouse is speaking that phrase to you due to you bein...

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Sep 09, 2020
Where's God in my marriage?

Read time: 1 min, 10 secsKJ, one of the spouses participating in the challenge sent this in:I have to work on the word love in my marriage its hard. When your spouse is on drugs been off and on this has torn our family and been leaving in out ou...

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Sep 08, 2020
The marriage double-standard

Read time: 1 min, 20 secsHappy Labor Day!This is the first email in my 30 23-Day Email Challenge (I changed it so the challenge would end on the last day of the month). It's not too late to do your own challenge (click here).Anyway ...Let's talk abou...

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Sep 07, 2020
🎯 Join me - the challenge starts tomorrow!

Yesterday I wrote you about the 30-day email challenge that starts tomorrow:I have always been reluctant to send "too many" emails. What that has typically resulted in is me failing to send enough emails. So, over the next 30 days, you can expect to...

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Sep 06, 2020
My Challenge + Your Challenge (Response Needed)

Happy Saturday to you - I hope you're doing well. It's 88℉ in North Texas right now. Considering we've had several days above 100℉, it feels nice and "cool" right now.I write today for three reasons:1) To thank you for being on this email list. Witho...

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Sep 05, 2020
🌟 Introducing Email & Group Coaching (Save 30%)

Three questions for you ...Do you love your mate, but the two of you are not on the same page anymore?Do you feel "stuck" and unsure how to make things better?Have you exhausted your friends and family talking about your marriage?If the answer to any...

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Aug 26, 2020
Quick Question: What's behind your couch? 🛋

So, I was in my son's room doing an upgrade to our internet (the routers are in his room).Upon moving his couch, I was greeted by this:Unsurprisingly, I began finding stuff that had been missing for some time.(Note: If you've been missing something,...

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Aug 02, 2020
Our anniversary was horrible. Open for details.

Last week I sent you an email announcing that it was Cetelia's and my 20th wedding anniversary.The two of us got out of town for a brief trip, and the entire experience was miserable for both of us.For starters, we didn't talk on our anniversary besi...

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Jul 25, 2020
🎉 20 Years. 20% Off. 48 Hours.

Today Cetelia and I are celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary!We're excited and grateful. In a later email, I'll write a out some of the lessons I've learned over two decades.For now, I want to let you know we've knocked 20% off all our marriage t...

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Jul 15, 2020