Everybody plays the fool

Read Time: 30 secondsHave you ever felt like your spouse was uninterested in what you had to say?Ever felt like your mate only cared about you hearing what was on his/her mind? Annoying, isn't it? It causes tension in the marriage, doesn't...

Read More
Sep 18, 2020
It's not too late

Read Time: 43 secsIt's not too late.That's what I'm saying about sending a message today even though it's coming nearly 12 hours later than I usually send them.But, that's what I'm also saying to you about whatever challenge you decided to take on du...

Read More
Sep 18, 2020
Do you know what you're fighting about?

Read Time: 24 secsCouples have fights about all sorts of stuff.However, more times than not, the fight is not even about the topic at hand.The fight is about preserving competence and and connection.Men want to feel competent.Women want to feel conne...

Read More
Sep 16, 2020
🐑 How are your sheep and oxen doing?

Read Time: 1 min, 26 secsThere's a poetic verse in the King James Version of the bible that I want you to think about today: Be thou diligent to know the state of thy flocks, and look well to thy herds. (Proverbs 27:23).I hear you saying, Kevin, 21st...

Read More
Sep 15, 2020
Warning Lights, Strange Noises, and Irregularities

Read Time: 52 secondsI'm sitting at Pep Boys as I write this message.Three or four other customers have come in since I've been here.While I don't know them nor their story, I do know one thing about them: they're having car issues, and they don't wa...

Read More
Sep 14, 2020
Will you regret it?

Read Time: 12 secondsWhat are you teaching your children about marriage?Teaching includes what you say and do.And, it's worth noting that when it comes to kids, more is caught than taught.In other words, what you model in your marriage has the potent...

Read More
Sep 13, 2020
Missing Kissing, Pt 2

Read Time: 57 secsAs soon as I sent today's message, I looked in my inbox and saw this reply from yesterday's email:I am partially quarantined due to my exposure every day as a public high school teacher in a COVID environment where all masks are vol...

Read More
Sep 12, 2020
Missing Kissing

If you're reading this email because someone forwarded it to you, I encourage you to subscribe so you'll get the emails hot off the press.Read Time: 2 minsHappy Saturday!I received some good feedback yesterday from the message about kissingHere's som...

Read More
Sep 12, 2020
Your Kiss Is On My List

Read time: 58 secsIf you were born after 1990, the song "Your kiss is on my list" likely foreign to you.Today, it's a setup for an important question: Is your spouse's kiss on your list?Researchers suggest that kissing is the first thing to disappear...

Read More
Sep 11, 2020
Are you a control freak? (Is your mate?)

Read time: 1 min, 45 secsYesterday I wrote about the reality that we cannot control everything.I included four powerful insights found in an email Amy sent.I'd like to take that thought a step further today. There are two camps when it comes to...

Read More
Sep 10, 2020