Comfort is not your friend

Hey ,Most times, the thing slowing us down doesn’t look like danger.It looks like comfort.When something is comfortable, it feels safe.It feels familiar.It feels like home.But here’s the truth people don’t like to admit.Comfort can be a cage.You can...

Read More
Nov 28, 2025
The day I saw how dangerous low emotional control is.

Hey ,A few days ago, I witnessed something that made me think deeply.I didn’t see the actual incident.I saw the aftermath.An elderly man, probably in his late 50s or early 60s, had slapped a young lady in her mid-20s. She was a tenant. He was also a...

Read More
Nov 27, 2025
Stop trying to balance your life

Hey,My friend and brother, Opeoluwa said something that hasn’t left my mind.He said, “Stop trying to find balance. Find rhythm.”And the more I thought about it, the more it made sense.We’ve all heard it before.“Find balance.”“Balance your life.”“Bala...

Read More
Nov 26, 2025
You need both push and pull in your life

Hey One of the most underrated things in life and relationships is this:You need both accelerators and brakes in your life.Think about a car.It has an accelerator to move forward.It has brakes to slow down.Both are equally important.Some of us only l...

Read More
Nov 25, 2025
Stop trying to enter rooms and start building roots

Hey,There’s something I really believe in.Not from a book. Not from a quote.From real life.Grow with your people.Our generation is obsessed with “next level” friendships. Bigger rooms. Bigger names. Bigger tables. And yes, it’s good to want growth. I...

Read More
Nov 24, 2025
Grace Is Part of Your Story

Happy Sunday ,There’s something I’ve been thinking about lately.No matter how good you are.No matter how skilled you become.No matter how excellent your work is.There’s a point you must never forget: You are not holding yourself together.We live in a...

Read More
Nov 23, 2025
Don’t Walk Through Life Alone

Hey ,What’s the point of having people in your life if you aren’t open to hearing their opinion on the things that matter?A few weeks ago, I reached out to two friends about a challenge I was dealing with. I wasn’t looking for validation. I wasn’t lo...

Read More
Nov 22, 2025
Don’t Forget the Ones Who Show Up for You

Hi ,Every now and then, something simple resets your perspective.A few days ago, I watched a video by Asherkine where he said something that stayed with me:“The real ones are those who are there in the good times and the bad times. They’re the ones w...

Read More
Nov 21, 2025
Faith Is Not an Excuse to Be Unwise

Hi ,A lot of us grew up hearing “Have faith. God will do it.”And that’s true.But somewhere along the line, many people started using faith as an excuse to avoid planning.Having a will doesn’t mean you’re praying for death.Just like having car insuran...

Read More
Nov 20, 2025