#77 – Where does imposter syndrome come from?

#77 – Where does imposter syndrome come from?When you give away your power too often, you get used to feeling powerless.You allow people to interrupt you when you're speaking – you even expect them to do so because it feels too risky to say what you...

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Sep 21, 2024
#76 – What's uncomfortable about owning your power?

#76 – What's uncomfortable about owning your power?Having power isn't wrong, but abusing it makes it harmful.I once asked a group of women, "who here wants more power?"They all raised their hands, nodding and grunting.I then asked, "who here loves po...

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Sep 20, 2024
#75 – Did you forget it was a curve?

#75 – Did you forget it was a curve?Does your mind always remember what your body already knows, that learning takes time? Mine doesn't.The learning process, as you know, is shaped like an upward curve. In the beginning your knowledge of what you wan...

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Sep 19, 2024
#74 – How would infinite patience change your life?

#74 – How Would Infinite Patience Change Your Life?I used to think that setting deadlines for my intentions and wishes was the key to making them a reality. I believed that if I wanted something, like a million dollars, the message wouldn't be "heard...

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Sep 18, 2024
#73 – What do you do with obstacles?

#73 – What do you do with obstacles?Obstacles are challenging. Sometimes frustrating. Always inconvenient.But how you respond to them will make the difference between ultimate success and failure.Until not too long ago, I viewed obstacles as though I...

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Sep 17, 2024
#72 – What makes you happy?

#72 – What makes you happy?The Ego wants to win over others. The True Self seeks contentment, no matter where others stand.The Ego prefers finite games that end when someone wins and another one loses because winning proves its #1 ranking. But the Tr...

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Sep 16, 2024
#71 – What makes us unhappy?

#71 – What makes us unhappy?When I'm walking on the streets of South Beach and a big truck fails to stop at the zebra crossing because the driver's on their phone or looking the other way, I become unhappy. Frustrated. Sometimes irate, wanting to sha...

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Sep 15, 2024
#70 – How neutral are your thoughts?

#70 – How neutral are your thoughts?I believed I was over judging but this morning I've realized I'm not.After I came across the sentence, "I have no neutral thoughts," I started to observe my thoughts. To my dismay, I noticed that every single one o...

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Sep 14, 2024
#69 – What part of you wants to be seen?

#69 – What part of you wants to be seen?I'm grateful for my sister's accusation because it allowed me to break free of my fear of not being perfect.Her claim was that I had an ulterior motive all along, and that once I achieved my hidden objective, I...

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Sep 13, 2024
#68 – Who makes you want to explain yourself?

#68 – Who makes you want to explain yourself?In April of 2022 I "broke up" with my sister.I didn't realize it then, but our relationship had re-entered the realm of codependency after our parents had passed and my family and I had immigrated to the U...

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Sep 12, 2024