Ready for a Sexy Christmas with Your Spouse?

Dear Friends, The holidays change as your family grows and the kids become adults.The first year all six of our kids were out of the house—two in college and all arriving close to Christmas—we noticed something.Many of our holiday traditions revolved...

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Dec 20, 2024
When Family Hurts: Loving Without Losing Yourself

Dear Friend,The holidays can bring out the best in us—and sometimes, the hardest truths about the people we love. We gather around tables, exchange gifts, and hope for warmth and connection. Yet, for many of us, the holidays are also a painful remind...

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Dec 02, 2024
Are you stuck in YOUR FRAME of PAIN?

Dear Friend,Are you stuck in your frame of pain?It happens to the best of us. Whether at home or at work, when you've been hurt, treated poorly, or disappointed, it's natural to put up walls—to protect your heart from breaking again and your mind fro...

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Nov 22, 2024
Take the LOVENAP Challenge!

Dear Friend,When was the last time you laughed and had pure, unfiltered fun with your spouse or partner?If you can’t remember, keep reading. If you can, keep reading anyway—this is for everyone!It’s time for a LOVENAP!A lovenap is a spontaneous, thou...

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Nov 15, 2024
Do You Answer YES to these 3 Questions?

Dear Friend,Are you feeling overwhelmed by your spouse’s emotional floods, constantly walking on eggshells, unsure if you’ll say the “wrong” thing again? If you’re tired of being caught in emotional storms that aren’t yours to own, it is time to take...

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Sep 24, 2024
Want to meet 28 Stepfamily Experts in one place?

Dear Friend,Struggling to find the right tools for your stepfamily situation? You’re not alone. Stepfamilies face unique challenges, and therefore, require unique solutions tailored exactly for their specific need. I firmly believe, "you can't give a...

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Sep 05, 2024
Do You Find Solace in Shared Stories?

Dear Friend,As I sit at this outdoor café in Minnesota, editing an article for the November issue of Stepmom Magazine, I can't help but be drawn into the tapestry of life unfolding around me. The air is filled with the quiet murmurs of midlife women,...

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Sep 03, 2024
Open for the roadmap to STOP ruminating!

Are you... Tired of feeling stuck in negative thought patterns? Exhausted from ruminating on things you can't change? Caught in a cycle of frustration and helplessness? Believing the lie that life will never get better unless someone or something cha...

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Aug 15, 2024
What is YOUR Biggest Struggle Right NOW?

Dear Friend,The world seems to be getting crazier by the minute. Don't worry, I might be referring to the debate but I'm not going to talk politics with you. Seriously, there is no debate that stressful things seem to be all around and if there isn't...

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Jul 03, 2024