Folks,I'm going to start with a note I got in the post last week from the creator of The Dot, Peter H Reynolds. The magic of the note was in the time and care Peter had taken to craft his response to my sending him a copy of my book. A hand-drawn pic...
Folks,If I have a theme from last week, it is respond - resist. A coaching conversation I had last week started with how to tinker with the message and ended with a realisation that it wasn't clear what the person actually wanted.Write a blog, and a...
Folks,I heard the term “perfect loser” this week, and I couldn’t help but sit with it for a bit - it’s so good!What do you lose when you try to look perfect?What do you need to not be perfect?It goes on and on. The perfect loser is my personal b...
Folks,Here are a few things that played out this week:Minority Rule: Organise a free play session. Watch it descend into chaos as the minority rules. Emerging from chaos came agency; kids who were being overrun by the louder, bigger, brasher ki...
Folks,Image by Alexa from PixabayWe are said to be leaning our ladder up against the wrong wall when, for all our efforts to climb the ladder, there is little to show for our efforts.Have we improved participation in sport? No.Have we improved the in...
Folks,What would change your mind? New information?A new way of doing things?The weather?There is a lot that can change our minds.I’ve been talking to a few people recently about high performance. What do elite performers or good coaches do that...
Folks,Will Guidara, author of Unreasonable Hospitality, shares a story of going to an out of town barbers for a haircut. “What do you want?” asked the gruff barber, pointing to three bottles of spirits. “Whiskey,” I replied with a smile.A day later,...
Folks,For the beginner, it’s usually not a lack of effort or intention, but where they put their attention. In Mixed Martial Arts, it’s when to tense up, and when to relax - stay tense throughout, and you'll be drained in minutes.It’s not that being...
Folks,I’ve started reading the book Unreasonable Hospitality, not because it was my first choice, but because it's bright yellow, sits on Lins' side of the bed, not being read—what was I supposed to do!At the heart of this book is the question: What...
Folks,Let’s start with just that - a video of my youngest daughter unpacking lots and lots of books! You can get yours here. Where did she get that sharp knife from!! My book is now available for pre-order in places like Australia, the US,...