What do you want?

Folks,Will Guidara, author of Unreasonable Hospitality, shares a story of going to an out of town barbers for a haircut. “What do you want?” asked the gruff barber, pointing to three bottles of spirits. “Whiskey,” I replied with a smile.A day later,...

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Dec 22, 2025
King for the day

Folks,For the beginner, it’s usually not a lack of effort or intention, but where they put their attention. In Mixed Martial Arts, it’s when to tense up, and when to relax - stay tense throughout, and you'll be drained in minutes.It’s not that being...

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Dec 15, 2025
Teenage Kicks

Folks,I’ve started reading the book Unreasonable Hospitality, not because it was my first choice, but because it's bright yellow, sits on Lins' side of the bed, not being read—what was I supposed to do!At the heart of this book is the question: What...

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Dec 08, 2025
A lot to unpack this week

Folks,Let’s start with just that - a video of my youngest daughter unpacking lots and lots of books! You can get yours here. Where did she get that sharp knife from!! My book is now available for pre-order in places like Australia, the US,...

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Dec 01, 2025
Living my best TK Maxx life

Folks,Let me start with a harrowing fact: the average author sells 250 copies of their book. Now, I think we both know, I'm not your average author, or at least, that's what I tell myself. Secretly, I think I'm a little bit better than that - I'll se...

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Nov 24, 2025
Course correction

Bernstein’s hammer reminds us that our starting point is not as important as the work we do to get to our end point. Prepared but… The post Course correction first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Sep 03, 2025
One way or the other?

Gone on a bit of a mad one this week, looking at risk, precision, and recall.  Not my area of expertise by any stretch. I… The post One way or the other? first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Sep 01, 2025
What are the chances?

What are the chances that a grassroots coach will know what to teach a group of youth players who are at various stages of development?… The post What are the chances? first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Aug 31, 2025
What should we teach?

Maybe what’s on the test. Or what is age-appropriate. Perhaps principles of play? We organize around the content, and then figure out ways to deliver… The post What should we teach? first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Aug 30, 2025
The cost of being wrong

Conservative: “I’ll only say yes when I’m really sure” (high precision, low recall) Risky: “I’d rather catch all the real cases, even if I’m wrong… The post The cost of being wrong first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Aug 29, 2025
We’ve come this far?

We’ve come this far. A rallying call of the foolish, or the final step for the committed. How do we know which one we are?… The post We’ve come this far? first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Aug 27, 2025
It’s not change if it doesn’t happen

It’s tempting to think that the reason coaches are reluctant to adopt an “open book” approach to their coaching philosophy is that it’s the hard… The post It’s not change if it doesn’t happen first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Aug 26, 2025
Making it count

My eldest is entering the business end of her school life. Whether I have any anxiety, stress, or ambition, it’s my job not to pass… The post Making it count first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Aug 25, 2025
Who you know

“It’s not what you know, it’s who you know.” Most of us take this to mean getting a leg up—being offered a chance that wouldn’t… The post Who you know first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Aug 21, 2025
Fun and failure

One of the great opportunities that the world of physical fitness offers us is the opportunity to design for, embrace, and work with failure. Not… The post Fun and failure first appeared on SimonHarlingBlog.

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Aug 20, 2025