When is a marriage Irretrievably Broken? 💔

Dear -You may have seen today that Tom Brady and Gisele Bündchen finally made their divorce official. It had been rumored for weeks, so I'm not sure it took anyone by surprise.Still, something from the story stood out to me: they declared their mar...

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Oct 29, 2022
[HTL] You Owe Me An Apology

Dear ,Does your mate owe you an apology?What was done to offend you?What can you do about it?Click here to find out.KevinRead: You Owe Me An Apology

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Oct 27, 2022
What do you like about being married?

Dear, - What do you like about being married?I encourage you to write some three-line poems* about those items on a sheet of paper (or use this online journal).Why? Because what you focus on has your attention, energy, and actions.Sure, you could co...

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Oct 25, 2022
[HTL] Delayed week in review video

Hi, - I hope your Sunday is going well.The video I've been sending to recap the week will be delayed a bit longer due to me being sick.I've had flu-like symptoms since Tuesday, and I'm still recovering. I'm slowly getting my energy and voice back, b...

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Oct 23, 2022
[HTL] When you make your spouse wrong

Dear ,So far this week you've read about when your spouse makes you wrong.That's easy to see, right?Now we're going to look at its evil twin that's much tougher distinguish: when you make your spouse wrong. Click here to read the coaching note.KevinR...

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Oct 21, 2022
[HTL] When your mate attacks what you know

Dear ,Have you ever felt like what you knew to be "right" was under attack by your spouse?Did it put you on the defense, and trigger a fight-or-flight response?Click here to read your latest coaching note to understand why, and what you can do about...

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Oct 19, 2022
[HTL] Week 2 Review

Dear ,I created a couple of videos for you to recap our second week.Please click here to access them.Kevin

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Oct 16, 2022
Ouch! That didn't age well. 😫

Hey there, - it's Friday, and the weekend is upon us.Before you get there, I want to warn you against saying something this weekend that seems well-thought out and proper in the moment, but may prove to be words you'd like to have back.I believe the...

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Oct 14, 2022
[HTL] Who Are You Being?

Dear ,Today's coaching note talks about context, money, marriage and hypnotic breakdancing. Yes, you read that correctly. 😂 Please click here to access it as we explore who you're being.Kevin

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Oct 14, 2022
[HTL] A Context for Marriage.

Dear ,The latest coaching note is available.You're going to discover how to distinguish your experience of marriage from God's view of marriage. Getting this distinction is vital to you loving your mate (and your marriage).Please click here to access...

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Oct 11, 2022