Hey there, .I was just talking to my brother, and he told me that his wife pulled his clothes out of the dryer, and dumped them into the laundry basket.If it were me, I'd be grateful because sometimes my clothes are pulled out of the dryer, and left...
Hello -Perhaps one of the toughest things to do in marriage is to forgive when we're wronged—especially if the same offense keeps happening.There are certain myths we all believe from time to time that keep us from forgiving. In this note we tackle...
Hello -Perhaps you’ve told your spouse to stop complaining (or maybe you’ve been asked to stop complaining).I wrote this note to challenge our view of complaining. What if complaining wasn’t all bad? What if our complaining was helpful?What if we co...
Hello -You and I talk a lot (even if you're introvert).Here's the crazy part: we don't even hear the majority of what we're saying nor how it's coming across.And, for better or worse, that has a real impact on our marriage.Read this note to learn wh...
Hey there, .Several years ago I read about a game a couple played for 50 years. One partner would write the word SHMILY on a sheet of paper, then hide it in a place where his/her partner would eventually find it.When the partner found the note, it wa...
Hello ! In this note we're going to talk more about stories.Your brain creates a story to make you feel safe and keep you alive. At the same time, these stories can cause you to be and act in ways that are detrimental to you, your mate, and your marr...
Hi -I have a question for you.What do you believe to be true about your mate?Here are some of the common negative adjectives I hear from spouses:BossyLazyToo bigToo littleFrigidHornyTalks too muchWon't shut upSloppyOCDIgnores meSmothers meIrritating...
Dear ,I had to run an unexpected errand for one of my kids that required an hour of driving both ways.We will start at 7:15 PM CDT / 8:15 PM EDT.Click here for the login info.If you can't make it, no worries. It will be recorded.See you soon!Kevin
Dear ,Our November group coaching call begins in 60 minutes at 7 PM CDT / 8 PM EDT.We're going to talk about what you're discovering thus far based on the coaching notes and field work.The login info is here and below.If you can't make it, no worries...
