A game to play with your mate

Hey there, .Several years ago I read about a game a couple played for 50 years. One partner would write the word SHMILY on a sheet of paper, then hide it in a place where his/her partner would eventually find it.When the partner found the note, it wa...

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Nov 08, 2022
[HTL] The Stories We Tell

Hello ! In this note we're going to talk more about stories.Your brain creates a story to make you feel safe and keep you alive. At the same time, these stories can cause you to be and act in ways that are detrimental to you, your mate, and your marr...

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Nov 05, 2022
Is that really true about your mate?

Hi -I have a question for you.What do you believe to be true about your mate?Here are some of the common negative adjectives I hear from spouses:BossyLazyToo bigToo littleFrigidHornyTalks too muchWon't shut upSloppyOCDIgnores meSmothers meIrritating...

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Nov 04, 2022
[HTL] Group Coaching Session begins in 60 minutes!

Dear ,Our November group coaching call begins in 60 minutes at 7 PM CDT / 8 PM EDT.We're going to talk about what you're discovering thus far based on the coaching notes and field work.The login info is here and below.If you can't make it, no worries...

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Nov 03, 2022
[HTL] Group Coaching Session Thursday at 7 PM CDT

Hi -A reminder that our next group coaching session is this Thursday, 11/3 at 7 PM CDT. Can't make it live? No worries. It will be recorded, and the replay will be sent out.Join Zoom Meetinghttps://us02web.zoom.us/j/89060932351?pwd=M0lOdU53NWpUMEtIa...

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Nov 02, 2022
[HTL] What Really Happened? 🤔

Hi - In this note we're going to talk about stories.Our brain tells us stories to make us feel safe and keep us alive. At the same time, these stories can cause us to believe and act on things that aren't really true.While there are times that this...

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Nov 01, 2022
[HTL] Video Recaps (Week 3 & 4)

Dear - I hope your Sunday is going well.I have recovered well enough to record a couple of videos for you.The first video is about Make Wrong, and the second video is about Offense.Kevin

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Oct 30, 2022
[HTL] The Other Side of Offense

Dear ,When you're offended, there's a natural response that is contrary to making your marriage work.Click here to find out what it is.KevinRead: The Other Side of Offense

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Oct 29, 2022