dill's blogPicasso’s napkin There’s a popular anecdote in the personal development world that accounts one woman’s encounter with Pablo Picasso. Much of it has been lost in translation but it goes something like: A woman saw Picasso at a cafe. He was...

dill's blogWithout your fears One of my favorite powerful coaching questions is: If you removed all your fears, doubts, and worries…what would be left? I ask that to you, dear reader. Let me know what comes to mind. Without your fears

dill's blogI love Imposter Syndrome Imposter Syndrome: • Doubting your abilities and feeling like a fraud. • Finding it difficult to accept your accomplishments. • Questioning whether you’re deserving of accolades. It comes in many forms. Not taking...

dill's blogUncomfortable leadership The skill I’m currently working on improving is the skill of leadership. It could go by other names, but in general what I mean is: Setting standards and limitations and sticking to them—at the risk of making mysel...

dill's blogA trick to getting what you want I love cliches. There are TONS of them in the world of self-improvement. After diving deeper and deeper into that world for the past four years, I’ve realized that that’s because living a great life, while...

dill's blogThe person you should be like Until I was about 25, I thought relentlessly, Who should I be like? I looked to successful friends, role models, even characters in movies or plays. When I was in high school, I would listen to the music my fr...

dill's blogAll different, all the same As a life coach, I have conversations with two to seven different people each day. We discuss their goals, obstacles, mindsets, and ideas. While there are certainly patterns and similar areas of Resistance, each...

dill's blogThis is progress This morning will be the first organized public event I attend since everything shut down in March of 2020. I’m pumped. My sister cheers for her local high school. Their football team is playing the high school I went to....

dill's blogNothing’s wrong Yesterday, I was being coached by my partner in my coaching program. He and I were diving into the stress and anxiety I feel over money and growing my business. I thought we were heading in the direction of: “I’m doing grea...

dill's blogHow to win no matter what I like to set up systems where no matter what, I win. In my coaching system, for example, my goal is to have as many fun and fruitful conversations as possible. It has nothing to do with closing a certain amount o...