Dammit, our parents were right

dill's blogDammit, our parents were right I’m almost the same age my mom was when she had me. As my friends and I approach the ripe age of 30, I’m realizing more and more that the cliches of getting older are cliches for a reason. There are the funni...

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Sep 23, 2021
How to not be nervous around women

dill's blogHow to not be nervous around women There’s a video of Craig Ferguson I’ve been thinking about a lot lately. It’s his answer to: “How can I as a young man be better at talking to women?” But I think it applies to all facets of life: making...

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Sep 22, 2021
Is people-pleasing so bad? (pt. 2)

dill's blogIs people-pleasing so bad? (pt. 2) Last week, I wrote about how my mind has recently changed on the topics of people-pleasing, saying No, and protecting our time. These are all things I’ve been working on for the past year as I run my own...

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Sep 21, 2021
Doing shrooms in NYC

dill's blogDoing shrooms in NYC In March, I joined an online coaching program and met Tomas, a guy who would soon become a close friend. This weekend, seven months later…I met him in real life. He’s been sober for six years, so before the trip, I was...

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Sep 20, 2021
Simple lesson (pt. 3)

dill's blogSimple lesson (pt. 3) A simple lesson I learned this year: It’s lovely to craft a successful career for ourselves. But what is twenty times more important is sustaining fulfilling relationships with other people—friends, family, and collea...

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Sep 18, 2021
Simple lesson (pt. 2)

dill's blogSimple lesson (pt. 2) A simple lesson I learned this year: “Working harder” is almost never the solution. Nine times out of ten, it’s more effective and peaceful to cut out all the nonessentials first. Simple lesson (pt. 2)

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Sep 17, 2021
The Friday Four—9/17/2021

Hi friend!Here's something for you to...1) watch.Drive-Thru During an InterviewFINALLY a good prank in 2021. This guy had me laughing hysterically alone in my office.2) read.Four Fake Nice Gestures That Are Actually ManipulativeI have personal experi...

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Sep 17, 2021
Simple lesson (pt. 1)

dill's blogSimple lesson (pt. 1) A simple lesson I learned this year: Rejection is always good news. It’s the best possible proof to show this isn’t a good fit right now. Simple lesson (pt. 1)

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Sep 16, 2021
How to beat confirmation bias

dill's blogHow to beat confirmation bias Confirmation bias: “The tendency to interpret new evidence as confirmation of one’s existing beliefs or theories.” No matter how objective or reasonable we feel our opinions are, this psychological fallacy pla...

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Sep 15, 2021
Is people-pleasing so bad? (pt. 1)

dill's blogIs people-pleasing so bad? (pt. 1) Two weeks ago, I ran a workshop on people-pleasing, saying No, and protecting our time and energy. It was lovely to hear a group of friends, family, and colleagues collaborate and share stories and ideas....

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Sep 13, 2021
Reminder: The Friday Four—9/10/2021

Hi friend!Here's something for you to...1) watch.Vaping: A Lesson in IronyA beautiful commentary on the phenomenon of vaping.2) read.How to Stop Overthinking: 7 Simple WaysSuper useful blog!3) use.Confirmation BiasA short video from Dr. Sherry Nakhae...

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Sep 13, 2021
The Friday Four—9/10/2021

Hi friend!Here's something for you to...1) watch.Vaping: A Lesson in IronyA beautiful commentary on the phenomenon of vaping.2) read.How to Stop Overthinking: 7 Simple WaysSuper useful blog!3) use.Confirmation BiasA short video from Dr. Sherry Nakhae...

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Sep 10, 2021
Reminder: The Friday Four—9/3/2021

Hi friend!Here's something for you to...1) watch.How to lose all your friends in lifeFor anyone who has too many friends or whose social life is too healthy.2) read.A coaching paradoxA short and lovely blog on why people are hesitant to invest in a c...

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Sep 06, 2021
The Friday Four—9/3/2021

Hi friend!Here's something for you to...1) watch.How to lose all your friends in lifeFor anyone who has too many friends or whose social life is too healthy.2) read.A coaching paradoxA short and lovely blog on why people are hesitant to invest in a c...

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Sep 03, 2021