What's the surest, shortest way to lose your power?

#331 – What's the surest, shortest way to lose your power?It feels righteous to feel "wronged!" Someone owes you––an apology, restitution, compensation. You've won, right?Wrong. You've only won the victim's seat, which is a disempowered position...

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Jun 03, 2025
How are you ensuring your own failure?

#330 – How are you ensuring your own failure?Behavioral economics tells us that choices, in fact, can be too many. A vast array of options in front of you muddies the choosing process––as any online shopper knows. As an executive coach, I often suppo...

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Jun 02, 2025
What is jealousy trying to tell you?

#329 – What is jealousy trying to tell you?I once voiced my jealousy about someone's life. This person suggested I use it as a compass: if I felt jealous, that meant I wanted what she had, and the feeling could guide me there.But jealousy is a deviou...

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Jun 01, 2025
What is jealousy trying to tell you?

#329 – What is jealousy trying to tell you?I once voiced my jealousy about someone's life. This person suggested I use it as a compass: if I felt jealous, that meant I wanted what she had, and the feeling could guide me there.But jealousy is a deviou...

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Jun 01, 2025
What is jealousy trying to tell you?

#329 – What is jealousy trying to tell you?I once voiced my jealousy about someone's life. This person suggested I use it as a compass: if I felt jealous, that meant I wanted what she had, and the feeling could guide me there.But jealousy is a deviou...

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Jun 01, 2025
What is jealousy trying to tell you?

#329 – What is jealousy trying to tell you?I once voiced my jealousy about someone's life. This person suggested I use it as a compass: if I felt jealous, that meant I wanted what she had, and the feeling could guide me there.But jealousy is a deviou...

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Jun 01, 2025
What is jealousy trying to tell you?

#329 – What is jealousy trying to tell you?I once voiced my jealousy about someone's life. This person suggested I use it as a compass: if I felt jealous, that meant I wanted what she had, and the feeling could guide me there.But jealousy is a deviou...

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Jun 01, 2025
What's your only responsibility in the world?

#328 – What's your only responsibility in the world?No matter how much society or your family might have tried to guilt-trip you into believing otherwise, your only responsibility in the world is you. Which includes your:ActionsWordsThoughtsFeel...

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May 31, 2025
What did they teach you about suffering?

#326 – What did they teach you about suffering?Many cultures and religions value suffering as a virtuous path to the purification of the soul. What if that's just boloney?Yesterday I received an email from a business consultant I spent a large sum on...

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May 29, 2025