What I've learned this week

Folks,Here are a few things that played out this week:Minority Rule: Organise a free play session. Watch it descend into chaos as the minority rules.  Emerging from chaos came agency; kids who were being overrun by the louder, bigger, brasher ki...

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Jan 19, 2026
Leaning our ladder against the wrong wall

Folks,Image by Alexa from PixabayWe are said to be leaning our ladder up against the wrong wall when, for all our efforts to climb the ladder, there is little to show for our efforts.Have we improved participation in sport? No.Have we improved the in...

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Jan 12, 2026
What would change your mind?

Folks,What would change your mind? New information?A new way of doing things?The weather?There is a lot that can change our minds.I’ve been talking to a few people recently about high performance. What do elite performers or good coaches do that...

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Jan 05, 2026
What do you want?

Folks,Will Guidara, author of Unreasonable Hospitality, shares a story of going to an out of town barbers for a haircut. “What do you want?” asked the gruff barber, pointing to three bottles of spirits. “Whiskey,” I replied with a smile.A day later,...

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Dec 22, 2025
King for the day

Folks,For the beginner, it’s usually not a lack of effort or intention, but where they put their attention. In Mixed Martial Arts, it’s when to tense up, and when to relax - stay tense throughout, and you'll be drained in minutes.It’s not that being...

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Dec 15, 2025
Teenage Kicks

Folks,I’ve started reading the book Unreasonable Hospitality, not because it was my first choice, but because it's bright yellow, sits on Lins' side of the bed, not being read—what was I supposed to do!At the heart of this book is the question: What...

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Dec 08, 2025
A lot to unpack this week

Folks,Let’s start with just that - a video of my youngest daughter unpacking lots and lots of books! You can get yours here. Where did she get that sharp knife from!! My book is now available for pre-order in places like Australia, the US,...

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Dec 01, 2025
Living my best TK Maxx life

Folks,Let me start with a harrowing fact: the average author sells 250 copies of their book. Now, I think we both know, I'm not your average author, or at least, that's what I tell myself. Secretly, I think I'm a little bit better than that - I'll se...

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Nov 24, 2025
Living my best TK Maxx life

Folks,Last week, I attended two events with grand titles:A digital campfire on possibilityProject AcceleratorFull confession: I wasn’t there to clarify my next step or learn to live a more creative life, but I was there to watch how others facilitate...

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Nov 17, 2025
The offer of clarity

Folks,I’m reading some fantastic stuff at the moment around rethinking what success, failure, and help are related to coaching, parenting, and, of course, teaching.We all have our own ideas of what these terms mean to us, but what is clear to me is t...

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Nov 10, 2025