Dear Friend,

Your marriage deserves a reset—because feeling stuck doesn't have to be your story.

If you’re in a safe, non-abusive marriage but it feels dull, distant, or like you've just accepted “this is as good as it gets,” it’s time to break free from that mindset.

Let’s be real—marriage doesn’t thrive on autopilot. It grows when love is nurtured with intentionality, thought, and meaningful connection.

Life gets busy, and without realizing it, you find yourselves living more like roommates than romantic partners. Or maybe the challenges of family dynamics have left you divided—on opposite ends of decision-making, or worse, on opposite ends of the bed (or even sending one of you to the couch).

It’s not too late to press reset, to choose your marriage again, and to reignite the spark you once shared. Let’s make it happen together. 💕

I’m inviting YOU to join my 3-Day “Mad at You to Mad About You” Challenge from Feb. 4–6. This challenge is designed to help you and your spouse reconnect, reignite your passion, and move from feeling stuck to feeling seen and supported.

Here’s what you’ll get in the challenge:

✨ Daily prompts to spark meaningful connection

✨ Three mindset shifts that will transform how you experience your marriage

✨ Practical tools to improve communication and understanding

✨ Multiple audio and video teachings dropped all three days to educate and empower you in this area

✨ Day three includes Q&A where you drop your questions and I'll answer every single one. Learn from others too!

✨ Encouragement to let go of frustrations and embrace each other with fresh eyes

Bonus:

If you sign up now, you’ll also receive 14 days of encouraging emails starting February 1st, each with one simple idea you can implement that day to speak love into your spouse.

💡 Imagine this:

• Walking into a room and feeling your partner’s smile light you up.
• Knowing you have someone in your corner, cheering you on.
• Feeling safe, loved, and valued—not just as a partner but as a person.

You can't control your husband or get him to see things your way or fix the stressful family dynamics that have infiltrated your head, heart and home but you CAN choose how to respond and how to allow them to impact you.

You may be tired of being the one who has to "change" but what if you taking the first step in changing your mindset is a sign of self-awareness and strength - because that is exactly what it is!

Don’t wait! The price goes up this Thursday!

Sign up now to lock in your spot and start this beautiful journey of choosing your marriage over the mundane. Choose to shift your mindset and choose a different experience. For all those who sign up by February 1st, I'm throwing in a FREE group coaching call the week after Valentine's day to review the challenge, offer encouragement and answer questions. You can join that LIVE or watch the recording.

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I know, I don’t post daily, but I share daily in my stories, so you get LIVE encouragement and tips and tools curated just for you! I also share a behind-the-scenes look at life, marriage tips, and encouragement for your journey. Let’s connect there! Follow me: @ReframingRelationships

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Move from roommates to soulmates. Choose your marriage today—it’s worth it!

With love,

Heather

P.S. Share this with a friend who might need it too! Because great marriages don’t just happen—they’re chosen. 💖