How do you speak to yourself in the morning? What are the thoughts running through your mind as you step foot into the world? Your thoughts drive your emotions, your energy, your actions. And of course we know, your emotions, energy and actions create your brand (whether you like it or not) 5 mins to intentionally speak to yourself every morning can change everything. Here’s how I spoke to myself today ⏭️ watch this reel to find out, and you may use it as inspiration to how you can speak to yourself :)

Crossing into 2023 wasn't easy.

I’ve got to be honest. As much as I’ve created my dream life in 2022, it has been the HARDEST year of my life so far. There has never been a year that saw me in so much indecision, self-doubt, feeling of unworthiness, fear of uncertainty, fear of screwing up my life, to the point of breaking down multiple times in the middle of a restaurant (and strangely, all the time, in a sushi restaurant) So hey, if you’re scrolling through social media seeing all these happy 2022 reels and you’re feeling shitty going through some emotionally painful shit right now, then here’s my message to you: Your reward is coming. After every breakdown, comes a breakthrough. At the start of 2022, I was struggling with career related decisions, comparing myself with other entrepreneurs, feeling not good enough, and ignoring my heart as I listened to my head. I felt myself shrink and abandon my voice. I belittled myself. There were times I can’t stop myself from crying at the dinner table, while my parents are puzzled to what’s happening to me. In the middle of 2022, I struggled heavily with battling my own workaholism and expectations of myself, hustling to feel more worthy. I struggled with my own stifling definitions of what makes a successful entrepreneur. Towards the end of 2022, I struggled through relationships with my parents, with my partner, with myself. These moments knocked me to the ground, took out all the mental energy in me till I only had one option: SURRENDER. When I did, I experienced the wisdom of my Inner Voice guiding me. I experienced the unconditional love from my closest friends and my partner. I experienced joy, freedom, love. My income increased. My relationships deepened. My business grew. I experienced breakthroughs in my business, my relationships, my spiritual life. I started loving my life, genuinely. So rest assured, your reward is coming. You’ve done whatever you can, planned everything you’ve planned. Allow yourself to receive the guidance from your inner voice. Open your arms to receive the love around you. After every breakdown, comes a breakthrough. 🧡

Before we enter into 2023, you may use these questions that will definitely have you living 2023 with intention and bring you closer to living your dream life: 1️⃣ How does my dream life LOOK like? - The lifestyle - The environment - The people you want to be surrounded with 2️⃣ What kind of work and/or activities truly energise me and make me happy? 3️⃣ What is one habit I can instil in 2023 that will help me start living my dream life TODAY? 4️⃣ Who are the people I can connect with and surround myself with that will help me start living my dream life TODAY? 5️⃣ What is one action step and/or decision I can make RIGHT NOW that will help me start living my dream life TODAY? ✨Extraordinary things can happen as a result of one single decision.✨ I wouldn't be living my dream life today if I decided not to take my mentor's advice. If I decided not to take up @coachreikoang invitation to join her on a digital nomad trip in bali (which was my first ever trip of this kind). 👇🏼What single decision will you make?👇🏼

Tomorrow is the start of 2023. The spirit and intention in which you start your new year has a huge impact to how 2023 unfolds for you. “If you want to predict your future, take a look at how you speak to yourself today.” — a quote that is so simple yet SO freaking powerful. ✨ How is your inner voice speaking to you everyday? ✨ Are you designing 2023 in alignment to your dreams and values, or are you just letting it be? ✨ Are you making decisions and investments that serve you to become the person you’ve always wanted to be? Declare the intentions you’re bringing into 2023 down below! 👇🏼 — Ways you can Own Your Voice in 2023: 1️⃣ Own Your Voice Circle! a 6-months group-1:1 hybrid program personalised and designed for you to overcome any fears of speaking or interpersonal communication, intentionally create your dream life, and own your voice with confidence in every area of life. 2️⃣ Own Your Voice Bootcamp! a highly interactive and hands-on 2 Day Bootcamp designed to give you the foundational frameworks, self-awareness, and skillsets you need to Own Your Voice — overcome your fears, gain immense clarity of who you are, master the art of speaking, storytelling, networking, and create an unforgettable brand to thrive at work and in life. ✨Link in Bio✨

✨ Merry Christmas from the Own Your Voice Circle! ✨ This Christmas we enjoyed the gift of Connection — Own Your Voice peeps met each other face to face, some for the first time ever, some from across the world…! 🥹 Everyone used their voice in our special OYV Gift Pitch-Exchange, we enjoyed a private stand-up comedy performance from our in-house stand-up comic @jonathanhalim who took the step of courage to pursue stand-up comedy while he was in the oyv circle and now performs regularly outside his FT job, and we had SO MUCH FUN and laughter 🤡 I’ve so much gratitude and love for this community 🧡 This may be hard to believe, but just 4 years ago, I woke up feeling uninspired and unhappy with the path that I was on. I didn’t value my voice, I didn’t even think I had a voice, nor did I value myself. Today, I’m so extremely blessed to have created this supportive global community, where every single person can discover their unique voice through coaching and use it freely. A community for vulnerable conversations and authentic connections. A safe space to Own Your Voice. As each and every one of these people own their voice, they not just contribute to the safe space for others, they also inspire me with their story and their courage. This Christmas, my wish is for each and everyone of you to know that you’ve so much to give, so much love, so much impact in your presence, your voice and your story. You’re capable of creating the life and meeting the most wonderful people of your wildest dreams. And all you’ve to do is simply BE 🥰

I’ve found the key to being genuinely happy. Here’s a wholesome read for your this Wed :)

Sometimes it can be frustrating when you feel like everyone is moving ahead and you’re here trying to catch up and catch your breath. If you ever felt this way, I did as well. My latest YouTube video is a message you may really need now 🥹 📺 LINK IN BIO as YouTube #2

The Own Your Voice Bootcamp is welcoming you in Jan 2023. Let 2023 be the year you define your future with your voice ✨

One of my biggest lessons in 2022 — Unproductive time can actually be very productive on hindsight. Watch “What I Needed to Unlearn to Be Happy” — link in bio as “YouTube #2” ☺️