Mum, I was born here.

Hi ,This Monday is Africa Day β€” 63 years since our founding fathers signed the OAU into existence in Addis Ababa.I want to share something with you before the day arrives, because it has been sitting on my chest.I recently watched a video that broke...

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May 25, 2026
International Day Of The Boy Child

Hello ,Today is the International Day of the Boy Child.I almost didn't write this email. Then I thought of the dozens of mothers who've sat across from me, eyes filling with tears, asking the same question: "Why won't he talk to me anymore?"So here i...

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May 16, 2026
The kitchen table is where inequality cracks

Dear ,This Friday, 15 May, is the International Day of Families. The United Nations has set the 2026 theme as Families, Inequalities and Child Well-being β€” and I have been sitting with it for days.When the UN speaks of inequality, they mean income, h...

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May 15, 2026
Your kids can have roots without the poison

Dear ,Someone in your family has probably said this to you:"You're making your children lose their culture."And maybe you believed them for a moment. Maybe you felt guilty. Maybe you questioned whether protecting your kids means they'll grow up disco...

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Apr 01, 2026
A jury just proved what I have been telling you for years

Dear ,I am writing to you today with news that stopped me in my tracks β€” and I know it willstop you too.Today, a California jury delivered a landmark verdict finding Meta (Instagram) andGoogle (YouTube) legally responsible for the depression, anxiety...

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Mar 25, 2026
Here's exactly what to say to toxic relatives

Dear ,You know you need to set a boundary. You know your child needs protection. You know this relative is harmful.But you don't know what to actually SAY.So you delay. You avoid it. You hope it'll resolve itself. And meanwhile, your child continues...

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Mar 25, 2026
A Mother Never Retires β€” Happy Mother's Day πŸ’›

Dear ,There is a title that changes everything.Not a job title. Not a degree. But the one spoken softly in delivery rooms and carried for a lifetimeβ€”Mother.The moment a woman steps into that role, nothing is ever the same again. Her body bears the ev...

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Mar 15, 2026