dill's blogI really don’t feel like writing this blog today There are many days where even the thought of putting together a few sentences is exhausting. But doing the things we care about doesn’t always mean we’re having a blast. Most days, I don’t...
dill's blog3 questions to ask your best friend I’ve talked about a feedback exercise we can do with those around us—friends, family, and colleagues. It’s wildly helpful in pinpointing our strengths and weaknesses. But here are three questions we can...
dill's blogThings I never learned in school What “work hard” actually means and how to do it. How to build strong habits and break bad ones. How to seek failure, mistakes, and lessons. How to be open and vulnerable. Strategies for romance. Time manag...
dill's blogTalk to your friends I had an incredible phone conversation with one of my best friends yesterday. They’re usually great, but this one really hit all the nails: a ton of laughter, business updates, and vulnerability. One of the silver lini...
dill's blogI forgot to write this blog I thought today was Sunday. I don’t write blogs on Sundays. After more in-depth research, I discovered that it is, in fact, Saturday. I do write blogs on Saturdays. This is one of them. I forgot to write this bl...
dill's blogSober October begins For the fourth year in a row, I will not be drinking a sip of alcohol during the month of October. There are a few reasons for this: It’s refreshing to take a break from putting poison in my body. It makes it easier to...
dill's blogStrengths or weaknesses? I’ve heard people say it’s vital to improve one’s weaknesses. I’ve also heard people argue we must instead build up our strengths. I disagree with the notion that it must be one or the other. We can do both. Here’s...
dill's blogAre you defective? Almost everyone is screwed up, broken, clingy, scared, and yet designed for joy. Even (or especially) people who seem to have it more or less together are more like the rest of us than you would believe. I try not to com...
dill's blogI’m just a reject I’ve been rejected a lot this year. This was to be expected as I launched my coaching career, but reflecting back on the number of No’s I’ve received is insightful. Byron Katie said: “You can have whatever you want in thi...