It doesn’t take much

dill's blogIt doesn’t take much A few weeks ago, one of my friends told me she was stopping by in the morning. My insecure self began wondering if I did or said anything I needed to apologize for. Then I wondered if she just wanted me to hide her boy...

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Dec 23, 2021
Writing bug

dill's blogWriting bug As I’ve been spending more time writing my book, I’ve felt inspired to write more. I’m planning on publishing more articles on Medium. (Go ahead and follow me there!) And I’m already brainstorming future books. One step at a ti...

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Dec 22, 2021
Omicron

dill's blogOmicron A couple of my friends either caught colds or COVID these past two weeks. The second of four waves that Nicholas Christakis predicted is upon us. Naturally, many of us will be more conservative now and stay inside more. I have cold...

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Dec 21, 2021
Slowing things down

dill's blogSlowing things down As 2021 comes to a close, I’ve been intentionally taking my foot off the gas. Scheduling fewer calls, not doing any outreach for the business, and having more days where nothing is scheduled. It’s been tough, to say the...

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Dec 20, 2021
Here’s an exercise (2/2)

dill's blogHere’s an exercise (2/2) After completing Exercise 1 from yesterday… Write out a list called “Things that drain me.” Again, try to write down ten things. Now, answer two questions: How can I do more of what energizes me? How can I do less...

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Dec 18, 2021
Here’s an exercise (1/2)

dill's blogHere’s an exercise (1/2) Write out a list called “Things that energize me.” Try to fill in at least ten things. Here’s an exercise (1/2)

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Dec 17, 2021
I’m sad and I don’t know why

dill's blogI’m sad and I don’t know why Maybe sad is the wrong word. Last week, one of my clients said the same thing happens every winter: From December to February, he just wants to quit his job, not talk to anyone, and smoke weed by a campfire. I...

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Dec 16, 2021
Am I an asshole?

dill's blogAm I an asshole? Here’s one of my favorite parables (I’m not actually certain it’s a parable, technically): If you go out into the world and happen to run into an asshole, you just met an asshole. If during your travels, you run into 30 as...

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Dec 15, 2021
I deleted email from my phone

dill's blogI deleted email from my phone Last year, like many during the pandemic, I became even more addicted to social media. After reading Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport and watching The Social Dilemma, I deleted my Instagram—which up until tha...

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Dec 14, 2021
I won a trophy

dill's blogI won a trophy My friend and I played in our first chess tournament this Saturday. It was one of my favorite days ever. Not because of any result, which I’ll get into. But because of how fun the experience was. Let me explain. 1) I got to...

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Dec 13, 2021