dill's blogIt doesn’t take much A few weeks ago, one of my friends told me she was stopping by in the morning. My insecure self began wondering if I did or said anything I needed to apologize for. Then I wondered if she just wanted me to hide her boy...
dill's blogWriting bug As I’ve been spending more time writing my book, I’ve felt inspired to write more. I’m planning on publishing more articles on Medium. (Go ahead and follow me there!) And I’m already brainstorming future books. One step at a ti...
dill's blogSlowing things down As 2021 comes to a close, I’ve been intentionally taking my foot off the gas. Scheduling fewer calls, not doing any outreach for the business, and having more days where nothing is scheduled. It’s been tough, to say the...
dill's blogHere’s an exercise (2/2) After completing Exercise 1 from yesterday… Write out a list called “Things that drain me.” Again, try to write down ten things. Now, answer two questions: How can I do more of what energizes me? How can I do less...
dill's blogHere’s an exercise (1/2) Write out a list called “Things that energize me.” Try to fill in at least ten things. Here’s an exercise (1/2)
dill's blogI’m sad and I don’t know why Maybe sad is the wrong word. Last week, one of my clients said the same thing happens every winter: From December to February, he just wants to quit his job, not talk to anyone, and smoke weed by a campfire. I...
dill's blogAm I an asshole? Here’s one of my favorite parables (I’m not actually certain it’s a parable, technically): If you go out into the world and happen to run into an asshole, you just met an asshole. If during your travels, you run into 30 as...
dill's blogI deleted email from my phone Last year, like many during the pandemic, I became even more addicted to social media. After reading Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport and watching The Social Dilemma, I deleted my Instagram—which up until tha...
dill's blogI won a trophy My friend and I played in our first chess tournament this Saturday. It was one of my favorite days ever. Not because of any result, which I’ll get into. But because of how fun the experience was. Let me explain. 1) I got to...