[TDM] Afraid going 10x means being lonely?
Feb 22, 2022 7:01 am
Hey there
So fun story....
Yesterday...
After being back in Nigeria for roughly two weeks...
I finally made it back to my home.
Now don't get me wrong...
I didn't get back into Nigeria and ignore my family...
There were the casual booty calls with my wife...
Staged walks of shame #evillaugh
And video calls with my kids...
I just didn't stay home...
Instead I checked into a hotel...
Well two hotel actually but who cares...right?
Anyways...
Whilst at the hotel...
The only time I stepped out of my room was when I had to help a top musician manage a crisis...
Apparently he'd been booked for a show but all of a sudden developed a bad case of stage fright...
But that's gist for another day...
My point is...
Even though I was for the most part alone in my hotel room...
I. Never. Felt. Lonely.
Being alone and isolated as a successful entrepreneur is what happens outside the world of conscious 10x growth...
Why?
Because outside a 10x focus...
All most people do is focus on working harder and harder...
Longer and longer.
I know because that's the framework I was given when I first got start...
Work hard...
Hustle...
Grind!
Don't get me wrong...
There's a place for hard work....
But with a 10x focus...
It's actually intelligent hard work...the smart and consistent reallocation of resources for maximum benefit.
The key to that building your own global community of 10x achievers.
Some successful entrepreneurs are hard drivers who achieve by sheer singlemindedness and persistence.
They believe that everything they’ve done is entirely the result of their own efforts.
This attitude makes them feel alone and isolated.
Other entrepreneurs see their past and future success as a result of continually expanding their community.
They keep getting bigger and better because their growing community enables them to achieve results in ways that are faster and easier.
This very idea is why the community mastery method™ by default rewires your mind for a 10x focus.
So now you have a choice...
You can go the hustle path and focus on being a success on your own...
Or you can go the 10x way and invest in building community.
The choice is always yours to make.
Anyways...
So I finally get back home yesterday afternoon...
After a night of meetings and an international workshop.
Totally exhausted...
Sat down to the meanest Eba and egusi soup made with Okazi leaves...
Then blinked...
Next thing I knew it was 6pm and Dk was on the phone calling to ask about the Monday night session for the 97 day challenge...
In my defense I blame it totally on the egusi...and maybe a little on exhaustion.
For everyone who checked in to make sure I wasn't abducted by aliens...
Thank you for you love and care.
And I apologize for not showing up last night.
Tonight we have our Rapid Results Clinic at 5pm...WAT
It's a group hypnotherapy session designed to help you rewire your brain.
And tonight...
The focus is on self love...
You'll be pretty amazed what's possible for you once you start to truly love yourself.
Till then...
Stay out of your own way.
CTM