The day I almost burned everything down
Jun 05, 2025 7:48 am
Hey there...
Once upon a stupid time...
Stupid ideas lived rent free inside my stupid mind...
Ideas like...
Walking away from it all..
The movement.
The message.
The momentum.
I won’t lie...
It had been a brutal season.
Too many yeses...
Not enough boundaries.
Too much building...
Not enough breathing.
And it wasn’t burnout I felt…
It was disconnection.
From myself.
From purpose.
Even from the work that once kept me fired up...
And then it hit me:
I had slipped out of sovereignty… and into survival.
I was reacting.
Not choosing.
And that’s the moment I realized...
Agency isn’t a luxury. It’s a lifeline.
Today I want to talk to you about the Activation layer of The Sovereign Readiness Matrix...
This is the heart of Sovereign Readiness.
Where vision turns to action.
Where decisions either make you…
or unmake you.
And just like Foundation...
It is made up off three core distinctions...
Let’s break it down.
First is Agency over Anxiety
You know that feeling...
Like you're constantly trying to keep up,
Trying to make everyone happy,
Checking your phone,
your email,
your list again and again?
That’s not just stress.
That’s a warning light.
It’s your body saying:
Hey... you’re not in control right now. You gave your power away.
So here’s what to do:
Take it back.
Gently.
One small choice at a time.
Say “no” to something you don’t want to do.
Delete that task that doesn’t matter.
Block off time just for you.
Even five quiet minutes can start to fix a noisy, stressful week.
Second is Hard Wealth over Vanity Metrics
Let’s get honest.
Followers don’t pay school fees.
Likes don’t build legacies.
Downloads don’t defend your future.
Cash does.
Equity does.
Licensing.
Ownership.
Control.
The algorithm will not save you.
But your balance sheet might.
Stop building castles in the feed.
Start building vaults.
Third is Networked Resilience over Solo Grit
Here’s the lie:
That it’s stronger to suffer alone.
That real leaders don’t need help.
Rubbish.
Solo grit is how you win a battle.
But networked resilience?
That’s how you win the war.
I have a private channel with five people.
We check in every Friday.
No fluff.
No filters.
Just: “Where are you? What do you need?”
That group has pulled me back from the edge more than once.
Find your fortress.
And if you can’t find it...
Build it.
Here's what I want you to ask yourself today...
Where have you traded agency for anxiety?
What false vanity are you protecting?
Who really knows what you’re going through?
Choose one.
Make one bold move today to reclaim power.
Because when you act from sovereignty… you stop chasing safety. You start generating strength.
Tomorrow...
I'll dig into the final layer of Sovereign Readiness...
And then offer an invitation to those of you who are committed to your Sovereignty...
But today…
Act like your future depends on it.
Because it does.
And most importantly...
Get out of your own way.
CTM