Don't buy what you won't pay for
Apr 22, 2026 1:09 pm
Dear Remi,
A few weeks ago, I told you about something I called Project1000.
The goal was simple enough: 1000 YouTube videos in 6 months.
On paper, it made sense.
If I want access to more of the right people around the world…
If I want more opportunities for the right kind of trust to form at scale…
If I want my work to travel further than my physical reach…
At the speed I wanted...
Then more video seemed like an obvious path.
So I set the target.
But then something interesting happened.
Instead of charging forward, I found myself hesitating.
Questioning.
Studying.
Trying to figure out if there was a better way.
A faster way. A wiser way to get the same result.
At first, I thought the hesitation meant I was drifting.
Now I think it meant I was being warned.
Because my original strategy was 5 short videos a day.
At first, that did not seem like a big deal.
Until I remembered I do not live on paper.
I have client sessions.
I have obligations inside IST.
I have my own development work.
I have responsibilities that are not negotiable.
And once I looked at the plan in the context of my real life, 5 videos a day stopped looking ambitious and started looking dishonest.
Then I considered batching.
Thirty-five videos at a time.
I did not even bother.
That told me something too.
Sometimes resistance is not laziness. Sometimes it is intelligence.
After doing Thursday Night Service for a while, a few distinctions became clearer.
One short video a day.
One major teaching of 30 minutes or less each week.
One major teaching each month.
Then, as capacity grows, increase the shorts.
So the target is no longer 5 videos a day over 6 months.
It is 1 videos a day over 36 months, measured in 8-week cycles.
Why?
Because I have learned something I think many experts learn too late:
A goal is not enough.
If you set the goal, you must also decide what you are able and willing to pay for it.
Everything valuable has a price.
Not just in money.
In time.
In energy.
In focus.
In repetition.
In sacrifice.
In what you will not do.
In what you must delay.
In what you must protect.
And if you do not decide that cost ahead of time, you will build a plan you quietly resist later.
That is not a character flaw.
That is what happens when desire chooses the destination, but wisdom has not yet priced the path.
This is one of the great strategic mistakes serious people make.
They choose the prize before they choose the price.
Then they confuse overwhelm with misalignment.
But the issue is not always the vision.
Sometimes the vision is right and the structure is wrong.
Sometimes the goal is fine, but the path asks for a payment you never consciously agreed to make.
And that is where strategy comes in.
Because strategy is not only about what you will do.
It is also about what you will not do.
It is not just motion.
It is exclusion.
It is subtraction.
It is deciding that even if something could work, you will not pursue it if the cost is too high, too disruptive, or too misaligned with the life you are actually trying to build.
This matters, Remi.
Because many experts do not fail because they lack ambition.
They fail because they keep creating plans their real lives cannot carry.
And then they lose confidence in themselves when the plan collapses.
Do not do that..
Do not build a plan that only works in an imaginary version of your life.
Build one that still works on a Tuesday.
Build one that accounts for your responsibilities, your current capacity, your standards, and the real cost of execution.
Build one you can trust.
That is the lesson I am taking from this.
Not that the goal was wrong.
Not that the ambition was too much.
But that wisdom means counting the cost early, choosing the path honestly, and refusing to confuse intensity with strategy.
You do not need the most aggressive plan.
You need the most truthful one.
And often, the path that wins is not the one that looks fastest in your head.
It is the one you can sustain long enough for it to compound.
Till next time
Get out of your own way.
Sensei.
N/B: Got some changes coming as we step into the new month. I'll tell you all about it later today.