Make up your mind and then get creative
Dec 04, 2021 1:01 pm
Hey there
A client of mine wants to join me for the private level of the 90.day money game next year...
She texts me.
“Sensei, I want it all. I want coaching next year, I want to launch my community and I want an adventure of possibility with you. But my resources are limited at the moment…”
I never tell a client that they should invest their money in a coaching experience.
That’s their decision, not mine.
But I had just invested 8hrs of life on zoom with one of my coaches.
It cost me an extra $10k that I didn't plan for.
And I didn't have it just lying around.
But...
For me...
The ROI on coaching and time spent with this amazing woman is priceless.
So I simply made up my mind and then got creative.
Here’s what I wrote to my client in response to her text…
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Decide.
Not deciding drains you of energy.
Deciding frees you.
The word decide comes from the same root as the word homicide.
It means to kill off your options.
Which is why it’s scary.
But if it’s scary to say yes and it’s scary to say no...
The common denominator is feeling scared.
If you’re gonna feel scared whatever you decide...
You may as well decide.
So… Decide.
And then sit with the feelings that rise up after the decision.
Sleep on the decision.
After you decide, you’ll know what’s right.
So decide.
CTM
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There's a lot of power in making a definite decision.
Yesterday after my marathon session with my coach...
I got on a call with one of my favorite clients...
This beautiful amazing lady made a quality decision years ago to go in to business for herself in a very specific field...
That decision held her through thick and thin...
Through hell and high water...
Frustrations and shame...
And today she has her business.
Unfortunately she's hit a ceiling...
Now she wants to move to that critical next level...
So I suggested she make another quality decision...
Because like Marshall Goldsmith would say...
The decision that got you here will not get you there...
I suggested that this amazing woman make another quality decision...
A decision that would ultimately break the ceiling and change...
The quality of clients she attracted...
The quality of the experience she provided them...
And ultimately the quality of life that she could live...
And she struggled...
Why?
Because like most of us...
She'd forgotten that it was a concrete definite decision about who she chose to be that brought her here....
We think it's tactics that bring success...
But truth be told...
It's our personal inner identity....
The person that we are internally committed to being...
That determines what internal and external resources, opportunities and possibilities that we can recognize, harness and maximize.
I can give you all the benefits of the $75,000+ I've invested this year in coaching and my personal growth...
Access to my teachers...
And the same opportunities I have...
And guess what...
You life will not change in any significant way....
If the person you have chosen to be this very moment...
Does not have the capacity to recognize these opportunities for what they are.
And all that changes...
The moment you make a decision.
So Decide...
Decide this moment who you are and who you will no longer be...
And live each and everyday from there...
It's a simple concept...
It's not necessarily easy...
And it's totally worth it.
If you'd like me to help...
Hit reply and let's have a conversation about that.
If you'd like to change your identity and results where money is concerned...
I invite you to join me for the money game...
For an investment of just $100...
I'll work with you and other courageous individuals as a group of people to see just how much income you can bring into your life if you got out of your own way.
If you'd like private coaching with me through the money game....
It's a modest $5000 investment or N2.5million and only 9 spots are now available.
The advantage is you have me working with you privately week after week to create your own money breakthroughs.
If you have questions about that or just want a conversation about what's possible before making your investment...
If you'd like to lock your spot on the 90 day money game at the group or private level...
Please note that this offer expires on the 10th of December 2021.
Till tomorrow...
Play a bigger game..
CTM