The Secret Reason Your Clients Stay Stuck
Jul 08, 2025 7:01 am
“The most profound change happens when you stop telling clients what to see and help them see what’s already there.”
Hey ,
Yesterday....
I shared the idea that every client has an unseen map inside them...
A symbolic landscape of beliefs...
Emotions...
Memories...
And meanings that shapes everything they do.
Today...
I want to tell you why most coaches and therapists never help their clients change that map...
And why they stay stuck in the same patterns...
No matter how many sessions they buy.
Let me tell you a story...
Years ago...
A colleague told me about a client of his who was stuck in a dead end job.
She hated her boss.
She dreaded every morning.
She complained constantly about feeling trapped.
My friend did all the "right" things:
✅ He offered great advice.
✅ He helped her set goals.
✅ He taught her communication strategies.
And she nodded and smiled and agreed.
But nothing changed.
Why?
Because he was treating symptoms, not the source.
He was talking to her conscious mind...
Hoping it would convince her unconscious to change.
That never works.
Here’s the thing...
Most change work fails because it ignores the real driver of behavior:
The client’s unconscious symbolic map.
The beliefs that aren’t rational...
The emotional wounds that aren’t logical...
The fears that don’t respond to pep talks...
You can offer the best advice in the world.
But if you don't see the map they're living in...
You can't help them change it.
If you've worked with enough clients...
You’ve seen this...
You say something insightful and they nod.
Then they come back next week and say:
“I know you’re right. I just can’t do it.”
That’s because the unconscious mind resists anything that feels imposed on it.
It’s wired to protect what’s familiar...
Even if what’s familiar is painful.
This is why clients often:
- Get defensive when you push too hard.
- Sabotage their own goals.
- Stay stuck in the same loops for years.
The unconscious mind doesn’t think in rational language.
It speaks in images. Symbols. Metaphors.
It doesn’t respond well to arguments.
It responds to story.
Symbols.
Feeling.
That’s why Subconsious Remapping works.
Instead of telling the client what you think they should do...
You help them explore their own landscape.
They see the crumbling bridge that represents trust.
They see the dark forest that represents fear.
They see the locked door that holds their potential.
And because they see it, they own it.
And when they change it...
Even subtly...
Everything changes.
Subconscious Remapping is the antidote to pushy, top-down advice giving.
Instead of imposing solutions...
You elicit them.
Instead of telling them what to feel...
You help them see what they’re already feeling...
Symbolically.
And you guide them to edit it safely, gently, and in a way their unconscious accepts.
Because it’s their idea.
Their image.
Their choice.
That’s why Subsconsious Remapping creates deep, fast, lasting change...
Even for people who’ve been stuck for years.
When you stop talking at your clients and start helping them see their own unconscious map...
You unlock true transformation.
They stop resisting.
They start owning their changes.
They start seeing themselves as capable of change.
“The goal is not to fix your clients. The goal is to help them see their map and choose to change it.”
Tomorrow, I’m going to show you why working with symbols, not symptoms...
Is the real shortcut to lasting change.
You’ll learn how minimal edits in the map create massive shifts in behavior, emotion, and belief.
This is The Certain Way.
So...
Get out of your own way.
Keep walking.
CTM
PS:
Become a Certified Subconscious Remapping Facilitator
ONLY 10 SPOTS AVAILABLE
If you’ve ever wanted to truly help people transform but don’t yet have a core skill you can rely on, Subconscious Remapping is the perfect starting point. It’s simple to learn, works fast, and creates real, lasting change that clients will rave about.
And if you’re already a coach, a consultant, or therapist? Subconscious Remapping is the world class tool you can add to your practice to dramatically upgrade the quality of your results—and the value of what you offer.
Imagine having a single, elegant protocol you can use with virtually any client issue. One that positions you as a premium level change maker while delivering real breakthroughs in 20–30 minute sessions.
👉 Interested? Hit reply and send the message "DETAILS and I'll send you more information