How to get anyone to fall in love with you

Oct 25, 2022 7:01 am

Hey there..


Yesterday was the close out event for my just concluded 30 day launch your high ticket transformational coaching program challenge...


25 beautiful people joined me for the challenge...


15 finished the challenge with their transformational coaching framework in place...


4 are almost done and have extra time (till next Monday) to get it done.


6 didn't show up at all.


Here's the thing...


I know life happens...


I also know that we all tend to over commit...


And it's often based on good intentions.


Unfortunately your unconscious really doesn't operate based on good intentions..


It pretty much only recognizes consistencies and inconsistencies.


Every day as a result of our consistencies and inconsistencies...


We're building conscious and unconscious habit patterns that define for our unconscious what should or should not be possible for us without struggle.


READ THAT AGAIN.


Every day as a result of our consistencies and inconsistencies...

We're building conscious and unconscious habit patterns that define for our unconscious what should or should not be possible for us without struggle.


So what do you do?


How do you consciously rewrite whatever conscious or unconscious habits you might unwittingly have programmed into yourself?


#drumrollplease


It boils down to four habits that I've talked about forever:


  1. Show up on time
  2. Do what you say you will do
  3. Finish what you start
  4. Say please and thank you


The super success key to changing your life with these 4 habits is understanding that you always have the option to renegotiate a commitment if it's no longer a priority or possibility for you.


This is particularly important when it comes to commitments you make with yourself.


Over the next 3 days...


And ending on friday...


I'll be breaking down these 4 habits so you can customize their application for you.


Because once you customize them for you...


You literally give people no option but to fall in love with you.


Now don't get me wrong...


I'm not talking about attraction based on sexual desire...


Though I will say that these 4 habits have worked magic for me in the bedroom...


But I digress...


I'm talking about another kind of love...


That one that comes as a result of people consciously deciding to form an attachment with you...


Commit consciously and unconsciously to doing you good.


Trust me when I say it's a powerful place to be.


Tomorrow we'll kick of the conversation with one of the most subtle ways to gain the respect of people and how you can leverage it for high levels of credibility.


And it's so simple.


You'll love it.


Till then...


Get out of your own way.


CTM

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