This ends today

Apr 30, 2026 1:24 pm

Dear Remi,


A few days ago, I made a decision that would have felt unthinkable to me a few months ago.


I decided to close down Thursday Night Service and Club Remi.


Not because they were bad ideas.


They were good ideas.


Maybe even beautiful ideas.


TNS gave me a room to teach.


Club Remi gave me a container to gather people.


Both were born from a real desire: to create a place where serious experts could come, think deeply, see themselves clearly, and begin to build a practice around their wisdom.


And to be honest, once TNS started, I usually enjoyed it.


I loved the teaching.

I loved thinking live.

I loved finding language in real time.


I loved the moment when an idea became clear in the room and you could almost feel something land.


That part was alive.


But there was another part I could no longer ignore.


I didn’t look forward to it.


I didn’t feel motivated to promote it.


And when I checked underneath the resistance, what I found was not laziness.


It was obligation.


I was showing up because I had created a thing.


Not because the thing had enough force, response, or strategic importance to deserve the amount of attention it was taking from me.


That is an important distinction.


Because one of the traps for credible, under-leveraged experts is that we often confuse consistency with wisdom.


We think because we started something, we must keep going.


We think because something is useful, it must remain.


We think because an idea is good, it deserves a permanent place in the business.


But Remi, good ideas are not always best ideas.


And in this season, I am learning that focus is not just choosing what matters.


Focus is also killing what competes.


Thursday Night Service was not useless.


Club Remi was not meaningless.


And no it wasn't that they didn't make money...


They did.


It's just that they didn't move the needles that really mattered to me.


In this case, the room was asking for more attention than it was returning in clarity, momentum, or qualified demand.


And for me...


That matters.


Because attention is not a soft resource.


Attention is structural capital.


Where your attention goes, your practice grows.


Where your attention is split, your power is scattered.


I realized I was fractioning my attention.


And I cannot build the International Society of Tribemasters while also maintaining every room, every rhythm, every idea, every platform, and every container that once made sense.


The person who started those rooms was still carrying the energy of HPEN.


Founder energy.


Builder energy.


Let-me-create-a-place-for-everyone energy.


But that is not the man I am becoming.


I am becoming the Chief Tribemaster of IST.


And that identity requires a different standard.


Not more activity.

More sovereignty.


Not more rooms.

More direction.


Not more people.

More serious people.


That was another truth I had to admit to myself:


I don’t want to keep speaking to people who are casually interested.


I want to speak to serious people.


People who are ready to build.


People who are ready to think.


People who are ready to pay attention.


People who are not just consuming inspiration, but are actively trying to become the kind of person whose expertise, wisdom, and trust can carry a real practice.


That changes what I build.


It means I cannot keep creating containers simply because they are good ideas.


Every container must now serve the Way.


Every room must lead somewhere.


Every rhythm must strengthen the pipeline.


Every piece of content must either


deepen trust,

clarify demand,

attract serious people,


or move the right person closer to the right decision.


So the focus now is simple.


YouTube.

LinkedIn.

Email.


A real lead pipeline.


A clear path from awareness to trust, from trust to desire, from desire to decision.


Not scattered rooms.

Not fragmented attention.

Not maintaining containers because I am afraid of looking inconsistent.


That fear was there too.


I won’t pretend it wasn’t.


Part of me wondered, “Will people think I’m unserious?


Will they think I start things and stop them?


Will this look like failure?”


But then I remembered:


Inconsistency is not when you stop doing what no longer serves the mission. Inconsistency is when you keep betraying the mission just to preserve the appearance of consistency.


There was a Thursday when I literally forgot it was time for TNS.


That was the signal.


Not because I don’t care.


But because my spirit had already moved on before my calendar admitted it.


And sometimes the body knows before the business plan catches up.


So this is the lesson, Remi:


Do not keep a good idea alive at the expense of your best work.


Do not keep feeding a room that is no longer feeding the mission.


Do not confuse obligation with alignment.


Do not call it discipline when it is really fear.


And do not be afraid to close something down when the next version of you no longer belongs inside it.


The goal is not to appear consistent.

The goal is to become true.


And sometimes, becoming true requires a clean ending.


Not because what you built was wrong.


But because what you are building now requires all of you.


No fractioning of attention.


No scattered fire.


No unnecessary rooms.


Only the Way.


Sensei

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