019 -NVC for Non-Listeners

Key Points Discussed:"...{This episode is for people who may not be interested in NVC or know people who are resistant because they  have] ideas about it being really prescribed and it not seeming or feeling natural "(0:11:9)"...how do you convert so...

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Jan 27, 2021
018-Self-Connection

Key Points Discussed:"...what self-connection does, it gets you connected with what's there, which is what we tend to not want to do very often, pay attention, especially when there's some discomfort, and yet it can be very helpful ."(3:21)"So there'...

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Jan 20, 2021
017 - NVC and What Happened at the U.S. Capital!

We recorded Part 2 of this Episode first and then Heather was a bit triggered by the conversation and Dr. B. was also concerned that some folks might take offense to the "education" being offered during the program.  So, we followed what we teach and...

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Jan 13, 2021
016-Connecting Requests- The Thing We Don't Do!

Key Points Discussed:I wanna speak about connecting requests because they're revolutionary. I really do believe they are revolutionary, and partly why they are revolutionary is because we don't do them, they're just a whole new concept of what you do...

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Jan 05, 2021
015-Encore Presentation of What the Heck is NVC?

Key Points Discussed:I've been training youth and community volunteers in the NVC process, and I'm getting ready to launch my business called The Bigbie Method to operationalize peace in America schools by using NVC as the backbone.(1:20)There's a lo...

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Dec 29, 2020
014-The Riff

 So I want to give you a little background on how we even came up with us. I want you to really meet my good friend and co-host, and my daughter from another mother, Heather. So what happened was Heather came over for dinner tonight, we were supposed...

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Dec 23, 2020
013 - WAIT - When Triggered!

Key Points Discussed:I think many people venturing into NVC, just the name of it, Non-Violent Communication. I think some folks might think that means that there's no place for getting angry or there's no place for dropping the F-bomb, but that's not...

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Dec 16, 2020
012-Needs vs. Strategies

In this episode, Dr. B. and Heather  go over the difference between needs and strategies.  They discuss why it's important, in conflict, to first identify the needs in play and then move to solutions/strategies.  Most of us have a pattern of moving t...

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Dec 09, 2020
011-Requests vs. Demands

How do you know something is a request?  Perhaps, we have been taught a bit wrong about  this because it's not necessarily how you say something and/or if it's preceded with "please."  There is more to it.Learn more about what makes a request a reque...

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Dec 02, 2020
010-Giving Thanks NVC Style

What do we mean by empathy? For those people that are new to our podcasts and new to NVC, we mean presence, reflection, and taking guesses about the needs the person is trying to communicate. Non-Violent Communication is based on this idea that all c...

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Nov 25, 2020