Have you ever stopped to consider what could transpire if you channelled all the energy you give to others and the world, into yourself? What if your greatest passion was not an activity, a person, or an ideal, but simply yourself? What if you made it your life’s goal to pursue yourself with the intensity, fervour, and dedication that you've been giving to everything else?

Abuse, in any form, has a way of distorting our perception of self-worth. It can make us feel like we are perpetually stuck in the role of the understudy in our own life's play, always longing for the chance to step into the spotlight, yet always left in the shadows.

If you made yourself your own passion, your life would change in miraculous ways. You would become your own best friend, your own cheerleader, and your own advocate. You would prioritize self-care and self-compassion, setting boundaries with unflinching courage. The phrase "second best" would no longer feature in your vocabulary because you'd be striving for your best, not in comparison to anyone else, but for yourself.

Connect with people who lift you up, who validate your emotions, and who respect your boundaries. Surround yourself with those who inspire you to be the best version of yourself. And equally important, distance yourself from those who drain you or cause you to doubt your worth.

Keep learning and growing. Fill your mind with curiosity, knowledge, and wisdom. Cultivate hobbies and interests that make you feel alive and joyful. Establish routines and rituals that serve your wellbeing and fuel your soul.

This doesn't imply you become selfish or narcissistic; self-love is not about disregarding others' feelings or well-being. It is about finding a balance, ensuring you're not sacrificing your own needs, dreams, and wellbeing on the altar of pleasing others.

Making yourself your greatest passion is a process of self-discovery. Who are you beneath the labels, the expectations, the fears, and the pain? What makes you feel alive, joyful, and at peace? As you peel away the layers, you'll find a core self that is deserving of love, respect, and kindness — from others, but more importantly, from you.

Remember, making yourself your greatest passion is a journey. There will be setbacks and stumbling blocks. There will be days when you question whether you're worth the effort. But each time, remind yourself of this: you are worth the world. You deserve the same love, care, and passion you've poured into others.

So here's my call to action: be bold enough to make yourself your greatest passion. Start by taking small steps each day to nurture and care for yourself. Stand up for your needs. Respect your boundaries. Celebrate your achievements, no matter how small they may seem. Gradually, you'll realize that you are no longer settling for second best but living your best life unapologetically!

So let's dismantle the notion that we must be second best. Let's challenge the voice in our heads that says we are not enough. Let's reclaim our worth, our joy, and our lives. Let's make ourselves our greatest passion.

In doing so, we're not just healing from our past; we're creating a brighter, more empowering future. We're not only finding ourselves; we're rediscovering the beauty, strength, and resilience that has been within us all along. It's time to shine, to embrace our full potential, to be our own greatest passion. And trust me, there's no greater journey than this.

Here's to you, to us, to our journey of self-love and healing. May it be filled with compassion, courage, and ceaseless growth. May we always strive to be our best selves, for ourselves.

And may we find, in our reflection, our greatest passion.

How will you begin to make yourself your greatest passion?

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