I do not have issues with men giving women money, whether in a relationship or not. What I preach against is women limiting men to money and refusing to give back as much as they receive in a romantic relationship.
If a man is giving money and the woman refuses him sex, then what is she giving? If she is not going to have sex with him, that is fine, but she must give something in place of sex, or she should not be in a romantic relationship at all.
A lot of women struggle to attract husbands; a lot of men struggle to attract wives. All of these people usually have one thing in common; they use like in the place of love. This is what keeps many of them from getting married.
Many women only like men; they do not love them, which is why they assume that a romantic relationship is about a man caring about their needs and demanding nothing from them in return. I have heard a woman say that men do not need love, and I wonder where that came from.
Most women assume that men ask them for a romantic relationship because they must have a woman in their lives, whose needs they must take care of like an orphan, but whose support they must never need or demand, especially in finance.
The truth is that men ask women out because of what they want from them, not what they can give, but they are smart enough to give before demanding anything in return. That is how to love!
On the other hand, women are always interested in how much they can receive without giving anything in return. This is why many of them do not fall in love with a man who is broke. They do not love men, they only like them.
Love is based on giving, while likeness is based on receiving. Men do the giving, so they love, while women do the receiving and will not be with a man unless they are sure there is something they can gain from him. Men love women, but women like men!
Women’s habit of wanting to receive without giving explains why many of them do not ask a man out; regardless of how much love a woman feels for a man, she will choose a man that she likes over the one that she loves.
She knows that if she asks the man she loves out or gives in to his love, she will be in a position to give before receiving, and that is difficult for most women to do because they do not know how to love men. They do not even feel it is their duty to do so.
In some cases, women are the victims of likeness while they are the ones showing love. However, many of them cannot differentiate love from likeness and they struggle. My stance against women accepting men based only on how much money they have and can give is because I know the difference between being loved and being liked.
This is why I wrote my book titled EARN THE LIKES, TAKE THE LOVE. This book educates people on how to convert likeness to love without becoming a victim of it. One of the worst experiences in life is to love someone who only likes people. You will suffer.
If you wish to know the difference between love and likeness and make the most of likeness to gain love then you need the book mentioned above, which is one of the 25 books and courses worth N185000 that I give out for just N3000 on my birthday offer on the 5th of September 2023.
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