He said I should not be happy because a slut found me sexually attractive. According to him, there is nothing special about a slut finding a man sexually attractive. As the conversation progressed, he asked if I could marry a prostitute, and to that, I answered yes and I meant it!
I can marry a prostitute because I have learned to choose what profits me over what makes sense to other people. I do not live my life to make sense to people, so it does not matter if my choices make sense to them or not. What matters is that my choice profits me.
If a prostitute will give me a blissful home, I will choose her over a virgin, which will make my life miserable. So-called patriarchal men will do the exact opposite. They prefer to deny themselves the marital bliss that may come from marrying a prostitute, to make a patriarchal statement by avoiding a woman with many body counts.
As a result of men’s habit of slut-shaming women who did not charge them for sex, women have learned to put a price on sex. Men now pay hefty prices to acquire sex that they could have gotten for free if they valued it at no cost.
Many men, such as the one that engaged me, are the worst victims. They work hard to pay prostitutes, some of whom have more than 1000 body counts for sex, yet go around slut-shaming a woman with less than 4 body counts who expresses her sexual feelings to them at no cost. It is like being broke and hungry and insulting the person who offers you free food. It makes no sense!
A time will come in your life when you will have to choose between what makes sense to people and what profits you. Whatever decision you make determines how your life turns out forever.
If you choose what makes sense to people over what profits you, your life will be miserable for it, but if you choose what benefits you over what makes sense to people, your life will be beautiful for it, but not immediately. The decision is strictly yours to make.
It is at the point of choosing between what makes sense to society and what profits them that many people choose generational poverty over riches, marital misery over marital bliss, and mediocrity over greatness. They are society’s slaves who must dance to society’s tune all the time, even if their lives are at stake for it.
Before you make a self-sabotaging decision because it makes sense to people, I want you to know that no one, not even those that you wish to make sense to, will suffer the punishments with you. Moreover, you can never live above the people you thrive to make sense of; you will always be below them.
A wise man will marry a prostitute if it will guarantee him marital bliss and a life free of troubles, but a fool will reject her because of what people will say about her many body counts.
A fool is a problem to himself and others around him; the only thing good about a fool is that he is a profit for the wise. Choose to be wise!
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I am Soul'e Rhymez
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