Soul'e Rhymez by Stephen Toluwalashe

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DON’T MARRY A NARCISSIST!

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One of the major reasons why I am not married is because there are too many narcissistic women out there; women who take and never give anything in return.  Any man that is unfortunate enough to marry them will be trapped in mediocrity.


A romantic relationship must have its foundation in mutual love from both parties involved but most women are narcissists and are incapable of loving others. They are dead seas; they give nothing but are always getting and never satisfied. They are merely ornamental liabilities.


When I talk about narcissism about women, I talk not only from observations but also from first-hand experience with different women. They think the life of men in their lives must revolve around them but theirs must not.


In my search for a wife, I once met a single mother whose kid I was willing to adopt as mine without any issues. However, after visiting me, she became cold – I appeared as a man with only goals and visions but with no material wealth to show for them. That was all I wanted her to see.


She started acting strange and one day, I triggered her to talk. She asked to know my net worth before we can talk about a relationship or even marriage. I saw that coming too, but I needed to know if I was right. I let her go. She was a narcissist.


There was another lady, who after suspecting that I could take care of her finances, told me one day that she was broke and I told her to work with me and earn herself some money – she left after that suggestion. She expected me to give her money, not tell her to work. She had seen a money bag.


Have you ever been asked for a recharge card by a woman you asked out and after you sent it she became cold towards you? Wait for a second, how much did you send? That is a test, most narcissistic women measure your riches by the amount of recharge card you sent to them, the amount you give as transport fare, and sometimes by faking illness and expecting you to send money.


Some even ask you to lend them money. They are all plans to know if you have a lot to give. If you give the impression that you have so much, you have attracted a narcissist to your life. If you do not give at all or give a little, they are most likely to withdraw from you. Do not call them back. It is a piece of good news that another liability has just left your life.


If you are unfortunate to marry a narcissistic woman, you will work yourself to death trying to feed her and your children but she will not help you regardless of how much she makes. If she helps out, you will have to pay her back and she will make sure you pay at all costs. Narcissists are like that.


If you wish to learn more about how to identify narcissists in a relationship before it leads to marriage, then you need to read my new book titled THE ENEMY OF THE LAST DAYS. There is a lot for you in the book if you wish not to be one victim.


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