Want to stop comparing your marriage to social media?
Jan 29, 2025 2:15 pm
Good morning!
Do you ever find yourself scrolling through social media and stopping at picture-perfect couples, glowing anniversary posts, or grand romantic gestures that make you wonder:
Why doesn’t my marriage look like that?
If you struggle with comparison, it becomes easy to put your life up against what you see online.
But here’s the truth: Comparison only steals joy and blinds you to the good you do have.
Plus so much is "created" online. You only see what another wants you to see and believe about their marriage.
NO marriage is conflict free but every healthy marriage is cultivated!
If you’re feeling stuck in your marriage, here’s something important to remember:
You can’t change your spouse. But you can change your mindset, your approach, and ultimately your experience.
When you stop focusing on what isn’t working and start intentionally cultivating what can work, incredible things can happen.
That’s exactly why I created the Mad at You to Mad About You Challenge.
Here’s why this is for YOU:
🌟 You’ll stop feeling “less than” when comparing your marriage to others.
🌟 You’ll discover small, powerful ways to improve your connection every single day.
🌟 You’ll feel empowered to be the change you want to see in your relationship.
Let’s stop wishing for something better and start building it—together.
These three days are NOT about excusing your spouse's behavior. Yes, they can probably do more. But you don't NEED him to be who YOU ARE!
Join the Challenge:
✅ When: February 4–6
✅ What: Daily prompts and tools to reset your marriage, rediscover joy, and reignite your connection.
✅ Bonus: 14 days of encouraging emails leading up to the challenge with practical ways to speak love into your spouse.
The price increases on Thursday, so don’t wait to secure your spot!
When you register, you'll receive a FREE workbook, instructions on how to join
(remember you listen on YOUR time, and you'll start receiving the daily emails February 1st!)
Your marriage is worth the investment, and I promise, small changes can lead to big transformations.
Feel free to respond to this email with any questions. Imagine looking forward to Valentine's Day this year instead of dreading it!
Let’s do this together!
With love,
Heather
P.S. This isn’t about fixing your spouse. It’s about creating a mindset shift that can change how you experience your marriage. And when you make that shift, amazing things can happen. 💖