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Feb 14, 2025 10:01 am

Dear ,


Happy Valentine's Day! In the spirit of the day of love... I'm delivery some tough love to you. šŸ¤­


I'm gonna share with you what's the ONE thing losing you clients before you even speak to them


You see, there are many brilliant entrepreneurs and leaders out there doing the ā€œrightā€ things. Oh yes.


šŸ‘€ They are using the ā€œprovenā€ templates for content creation.

šŸ‘€ They are practicing those charisma ā€œhacksā€ they learnt from some podcast.

šŸ‘€ They spent their entire lives doing things perfectly, working hard for those credentials and awards.


But the moment it comes to drawing clients in, they canā€™t seem to make things work. (Unless itā€™s by referral)


And for many of these leaders and badass bosses, it goes beyond wanting clients or earning more money. They want to create impact. They know that their mentors and support systems have helped them and they want to give back to the next line of leaders.


But WHY IS IT SO HARD?? You may even think: ā€œI know Iā€™m meant to do this work, to use my voice to share this messageā€¦ Why does it feel so hard??ā€


Let me tell you why.


Your energetic presence gives you away in a fraction of a second.


Research shows that people judge trustworthiness almost instantly.


Within 1 second they make quick judgements about competence, confidence and likability based on facial expressions and body language.


Additionally, you get a lot less time to capture attention online, because they can ā€œswipeā€ you on their phones unlike in real life.


First impressions are shaped by a combination of visual, vocal, and psychological factorsā€”all processed within seconds.

  • 55% are Visual cues (facial expressions, eye contact, body language)
  • 38% are Vocal cues (tone, pace, clarity, emphasis and inflection)
  • and we have Psychological and Emotional factors (context of communication, your inner state, your authenticity)


And before you start googling ā€œHow to create a good first impressionā€, know this: Research shows that confidence naturally influences the cues that shape first impressions. When youā€™re truly confident, your body language, voice, and presence align effortlessly, making you more magnetic and trustworthy.


Yes, that means when you are truly grounded and in a relationship with your unique voice, you will show up authentic, personable, confident and magneticā€” in-person and online.


The ONE thing losing you clients before you even speak to them is what your energetic presence communicates to them. It is communicating:

  • ā€œIf you donā€™t join my team/ buy from me, Iā€™m going to feel like a lousy entrepreneur.ā€
  • ā€œIā€™m actually not that good, someone else is better.ā€ (even though they chose to book a call with you)
  • ā€œI have so much to doā€¦ā€ and you come across tired and overwhelmed
  • ā€œI can help you in any way, whatever challenges you have in X topic, I can help youā€


Your unconscious is showing. Every single time.


Many ignore it. Many refuse to confront it. Many donā€™t even know it exists.

Your reality is a reflection of your beliefsā€” conscious and subconscious.

This is why in EVERY challenge I coach on I will guide you to observe your subconscious.


šŸ‘€ In content creationā€” What are the beliefs you have about yourself? What are your true intentions for using your voice? (not what you tell yourself, but what is true deep down) What are the beliefs you have about your clients and your audience?


šŸ‘€ In activating your charismaā€” How have you been taught to define/ recognise charisma? In what ways are you comparing yourself to others? What labels have you placed on yourself?


šŸ‘€ What image are you trying to portray, and why? Is it in alignment to who you are? Is it attracting the clients you want to have, or clients you THINK you SHOULD have?


And moreā€¦

In the upcoming Rising Leaders House Party (happening next month) weā€™re peeling back the layers of ā€œshouldsā€ and ā€œneed toā€ in branding and in using your voice, which can be applied to speaking, writing, marketing, networking, and sales.


Youā€™ll do the inner work and practice using actual frameworks, so you develop the skills to express yourself and champion your message with power and poise.


No more ā€œhacksā€, only effortlessly showing upā€” with grace, with intention, and a whole lot of strategy.


Join us for this special 2.5 weeks Rising Leaders House Party


Early sign ups will get access to a BONUS RESOURCE. The earlier you get started on this resource, the more fruitful your House Party experience.


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To be part of this, DM ME ON INSTAGRAM herešŸ‘‡šŸ¼


DM Rae Here



Welcome to our cozy house party, where using your voice is as effortless and fun as chatting with your best friends!


Due to popular demand, we are having our second live run this year.


šŸ¤Æ Imagine being able to write, speak, and post whatever is on your mind without worrying about being ā€˜too muchā€™


šŸ¤Æ Imagine sharing on social media with joy and lightness, unbothered by your number of views


šŸ¤Æ Imagine not batting an eye when making brand decisions (I.e. word choices and colours and templates) because youā€™ve embodied your brand so much that whatever you create is a powerful reflection of that


šŸ¤Æ Imagine feeling convicted of your message and story every time you step on stage


šŸ¤Æ And Imagine people telling you ā€œyour content continues to inspire meā€ even when you arenā€™t posting ā€œeducational contentā€ and youā€™re simply showing up as yourself.


This isnā€™t an unreachable fantasy.


This CAN be you.


This can be you even if you arenā€™t sure what your niche is (even though youā€™re clearly experienced and brilliant at what you do)


Or if you canā€™t keep up posting 3x a day like Gen Zs


Or even if you struggle with having a constant stream of inspiration for your content


No matter where you're at, trust me: you can be that prolific creator and captivating storyteller. And no, you don't have to wait till you've gained more experience or credentials. And hell yes, can you actually enjoy it all.


šŸŽ‰ Rising Leaderā€™s House Party šŸŽ‰


Join us, because using your voice and building your brand CAN be fun, fulfilling and effortlessā€” and I wanna show you how.


To be part of this, DM ME ON INSTAGRAM herešŸ‘‡šŸ¼


Weā€™ve a maximum capacity of 20.

6 peeps have already paid and secured their seat.


DM Rae Here



Here's more of what past participants have shared about the House Party.


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Rising Leaders House Party is a 2.5-weeks community course where you get to have me as your personal brand strategist and speaking coach.


You'll learn the 3 most important building blocks to becoming an impactful speaker and captivating content creator, take massive action while having fun being accountable to a cozy group of awesome new friends!


You're going to be in a room where you can be completely and wholeheartedly yourself, and trust me - you'll be pleasantly surprised with the art you create when you feel safe and inspired.


What you will learn:


CREATING YOUR INNER HOME


Using your voice can be an enjoyable process. Having inspiration and conviction flow through you is a feeling that is unmatched. Speaking and creating from any other place other than joy is unsustainable, and I believe we're both in it for the long road ahead. Learn how to create safety within your body such that you'll speak your truth without having to look over your shoulder and worry if anyone will misunderstand.


CONNECTING WITH THE ARTIST WITHIN


Ever gotten a writer's block you can't get rid of? How can you instead access an infinite state of inspiration? Yes, it IS possible, and you'll learn exactly how, such that you'll never run out of bloody good content to put out. 


CURATING YOUR COMMUNITY


If you're sick and tired of figuring out your niche or target audience using generic audience profiling exercises, you're going to wanna hear this ā€” There IS your "right person" profile for your brand and business, and I'll guide you to identify who they are so you can actually attract the people you want to hang out with. 


CAPTIVATE YOUR AUDIENCE WITH SOULFUL STORYTELLING


Everyone is using storytelling as part of their marketing strategy, but honestly, most stories make people go "meh" and they skip next. We're living in a world of shorter and shorter attention spans, and if you want to captivate your right people, you want to tell soulful stories that make them think "How did he/she just read my mind??" Learn how you can connect deeply with your audience and create "hell yes!" moments for them. 


Once again, DM me if you want to join! Iā€™m still deciding the dates. Itā€™s an intimate small group of 15 people maximum, so if you want to be part of this, DM ME ON INSTAGRAM herešŸ‘‡šŸ¼


We've 20 spots. 6 have been taken. Secure your spot now.


DM Rae Here



Let 2025 be the year you start using your voice with flow and freedom, and build the foundations of your timeless brand. You'll learn what it takes to define your unique voice in your industry and become a voice worth following.


I can't wait to see you at the party!


Always in your corner,

Rae x

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