I'm not that good yet

Oct 13, 2020 6:01 pm

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One day while doing marriage coaching, a wife said, "I'm not that good yet."


She was speaking about doing the things her husband requested of her.


I love her response.


Saying, "I'm not that good yet" isn't a cop-out, unless you have no intention of trying to become a better spouse.


Rather, it shows that you're trying, but haven't arrived. It shows that you have a goal, but haven't achieved it. It shows that you're sensitive to who your mate needs you to be, and you're working to honor that request.


When it comes to becoming a better spouse, you've got a couple of things you can say:


"I'm not that good yet" or "I'm not trying to get that good."


Which will you choose?


Kevin


ps - my family and I are moving over the next few days. I'm going to have some guest writers, and I look forward to hearing your feedback on what they share.

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