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It just may be ...

• Your spouse is asking a million questions for clarity, not to be negative

• Your mate had a perfectly good reason for coming home late

• The way your mate sees the situation is not wrong after all

• Fear of disconnection is driving your mate's response

• Shame from not "having what it takes" is behind your mate's isolation

• Your mate's having trouble expressing his/her feelings, not being secretive

• Things will get better when you lower your impossibly high standards

• Holding a grudge is just as bad as what your spouse did to you

• Your spouse isn't upset with you, rather something or someone else

• You'll feel better once you confront the issues in your marriage instead of running from them.

• Marriage counseling isn't such a bad idea

• You're getting too close to a member of the opposite sex

• Making divorce threats is pushing you closer to carrying it out

• Viewing porn is actually hurting your sex life

• You're carrying double-standards that are hurting your marriage

• Withholding sex as a form of punishment is making matters worse

• Putting God at the center of your marriage will make things better

• Your marriage will work if you're honest about the items in this list

Kevin

ps - Reminder: I'm introducing a new program tomorrow. Cetelia and I are excited about it, and hope you will be, too. We believe it will help you become the spouse you desire to be. Don't miss it!