Don't go looking for dirt on your spouse.

If it's there, it will appear. It always will.

At the same time, don't willfully turn a blind eye to evidence that suggests something untoward is going on.

As you can see, there's the fine line to walk:

• Trust that God, in His time, will bring deeds done in the dark to the light; and

• Don't ignore the obvious that is in your face with a flashing neon light.

Walking off this line in either direction creates undue heartache in your marriage.

Kevin