Barnabas wanted to take John, surnamed Mark, as their companion. But Paul strongly disapproved of taking with them a man who had deserted them in Pamphylia and was not prepared to go on with them in their work. There was a sharp clash of opinion, so much so that they went their separate ways, Barnabas taking Mark and sailing to Cyprus, while Paul chose Silas and set out on his journey. (Acts 15:37-39, Phillips)

In their missionary endeavors, Paul felt John Mark wasn't quite ready to rejoin due to his earlier departure. This wasn't about right or wrong but rather Paul's personal preference based on past experiences. Barnabas, on the other hand, felt differently. Neither of their stances was inherently right or wrong; they were just different.

Life presents us with countless choices, and we all develop personal preferences based on our experiences, values, and perspectives. Often, these preferences don't have a moral dimension. They're neutral – neither right nor wrong, just different. Recognizing this can pave the way for mutual respect and understanding. Instead of seeing disagreements on preferences as battles to win and establish rightness or wrongness, we can see them as opportunities to learn and grow.

Being a member of the Mount will give you countless opportunities to practice seeing differences instead of passing judgment on decisions you disagree with. Take advantage of the opportunities through God's grace.

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Prayer

Lord, grant me the wisdom to understand and respect the varied personal preferences that my brothers and sisters in Christ have. Help me not to judge or impose, but to appreciate the diversity of choices and experiences. Let me approach differences with an open heart, celebrating the tapestry of choices You've given us. Amen.

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Reflection

1. Can you recall a time when you disagreed with someone based on personal preferences? How did you navigate that situation?

2. How can you cultivate an environment of mutual respect when faced with differing preferences?

3. In what areas of your life can you be more open to understanding and appreciating different choices?

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