• They're in a better place
• They have their wings now
• God needed an angel
• At least they're not suffering anymore
• God plucked His flower
• At least you got to spend good years with them
• I know how you feel. My ___ passed, too.
• You've got to be strong
• God won't put more on you than you can bear.

These "comforting" phrases and others like them can intensify grief, and cause the griever to get angry after hearing it enough times.

In the sacred space of grief, where hearts ache and words often fall short, James 1:19 calls us to be "quick to listen" and "slow to speak." Grieving souls often find solace not only in the power of a compassionate presence but also in the gift of being truly heard.

Grief is delicate, and our role is not always to offer commentary, rather to listen. Being "quick to listen" requires a patient ear and an open heart. It means creating a space where the grieving can unfold their stories, their memories, and their pain.

Ephesians 4:29 further guides us, urging words that are not only kind but fitting for the occasion. Sometimes, in our eagerness to offer comfort, we may feel compelled to share our own stories or offer unsolicited advice. Yet, the wisdom lies in choosing words that resonate with the unique cadence of each grieving heart.

As we stand beside those who mourn, may our listening be an act of love, and our words fitting (Proverbs 25:11). May our responses, both in speech and silence, resonate with the grief-stricken, offering comfort without making it about us.

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Prayer

Heavenly Father, grant me the grace to be quick to listen and slow to speak in the presence of grief. May my heart and ears be open, and my words be a gentle offering of comfort. Teach me the art of compassionate listening, so that in my presence, others may find solace.

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Reflection

1. Recall a moment when you listened compassionately to someone who was grieving. How did this impact your understanding of their pain?

2. Reflect on James 1:19. How can being "quick to listen" and "slow to spek" enhance your ability to offer genuine comfort to those in grief?

3. Consider Ephesians 4:29. How can you ensure that your words are not only kind but also fitting for the occasion when comforting someone who is grieving?

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